i am really sick and tired of guys treating me the way they are, theres this one guy i have been seeing and sometimes it seems he cares about me other times he just doesnt care and with no explanation watsoever, what can i say to him that will make him feel reallly guilty about the way hes treating me?
2007-01-17 08:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need to make him feel guilty. Just move on and start seeing someone else. He isn't going to change.
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2007-01-17 08:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
making someone you are sharing yourself with feel guilty, sounds like a good relationship based on trust, respect and admiration, oh wait, no it doesn't. You are not ready for serious relationships so just go on dates and try not to get serious at this time, given enough meetings you will eventually find different things you like in different guys then have a better idea what type of person your next serious relationship should strive for
2007-01-17 16:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is not going to feel guilty and obviously you dont know how to MAKE anyone do anything because you can not control anyone but yourself. Get control of yourself and stop allowing guys to treat you badly. If not, you will always be a doormat.
2007-01-17 16:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront and let him know that you're no raggedy ann doll. You have feelings also and you prefer to be treated like a woman. But beware, if you give off little girl vibes than that's what you will be treated as.
2007-01-17 16:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by ksfinney17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never play the 'guilt card'. Men resent it when a girl tries to manipulate them...we all do. Either he treats you well or he doesn't...you don't need wishy washy or luke warm. Find someone that makes you feel like a goddess.
2007-01-17 16:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make him feel really guilty? If someone doesn't treat you right, tell them how you want to be treated, If they still don't get it, move on.
2007-01-17 16:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone feel guilty. guilt comes from within. if he doesn't treat you the way that you deserve to be treated, then do like beyonce and tell him, "to the left, to the left."
not all guys are jerks; just this one. my advice is to leave him alone.
2007-01-17 16:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are soo sick and tired of him bn 2 faced adn tell him you want to be treated like a girlfriend and not like a movie where you like it one minute and the next you dnt really care about it. hun if he is treating you this way get a new bf.
2007-01-17 16:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make an asshole feel guilty. Read "He's Just Not That Into You" and move on
2007-01-17 16:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
I'm having the same problem
only we've gone out 4 or was it 5 times
anyway tell him how u feel
*don't kick him in the nuts
xspecially if u like him
thats just asking for trouble*
2007-01-17 16:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋