ok i have bn tlkin to this really nice guy on 2-way. he has a 2 1/2 yr old son who is adorable and i love him to death. well me and jordan (2yr old)'s dad have been tlking for a while and last night he asked i wanted to hook up. jordan loves me i mean he loves for me to play and tlk to him.. but with him bn soo young will it effect him if me and his dad go out?o b4 i forget he just turned 18 and im 15
2007-01-17 08:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just turned 18 and yes he has full custody of jordan, bc his mom tried to do something... but i mean we have known each other for about a year adn a half so..
2007-01-17 08:20:42 · update #1
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2007-01-17 08:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I hate to give ya the bad news right off the bat but it's all bad.....
Not only , imo of course, are you too young to be with an 18 yr. old, you definitely should be experiencing life for yourself before committing to another man's child...
Which leads me to, YES, it will affect Jordan, he may be little but at this age they are sponging up absolutely everything in their environments, including you.....the more he is around you, the harder it is going to be on him once you're gone, and face it sweetie, you will be gone eventually....
You don't want to get stuck playing house already do you? I mean, it's great that you have accepted this beautiful baby boy, but give it some time....if Jordan's father is serious about you, then he would wait a few years, wait for you to grow up, not just in age, but in life experience...you deserve to be goin out and havin FUN girl!!! Not staying in every weekend babysitting cuz you can't get into the bars with the dude....ya hearin me?!!!
2007-01-17 16:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away unless you want to give Jordan a little Brother or Sister. It might also be against the law.
2007-01-17 16:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an 18 year old should not be with a 15 year old it is against the law.
2007-01-17 16:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP RIGHT HERE!!!!!! HE IS 18 AND YOU ARE 15? WHAT DOES YOUR PARENTS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THIS? THIS PROVES THAT HE HAS BEEN SEXUALLY ACTIVE. HAVE YOU? IF SO THE BOTH OF YOU NEED TO TALK WITH YOUR PARENTS. IF IT IS OK WITH THEM. THE NEXT STEP IS TO GET TESTED FOR ALL ALLL ALLLL SEX TRANSMITTED DIESEASED. WITH THIS DO THE SERUM OR BLOOD TYPE WITH ALL CHANCES POSSIBEL. THIS WILL BE A CLEAN SWEEP FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.
2007-01-17 16:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by dinea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just coming onto you so you will babysit for free....
Really, c'mon girl use your common sense - he had a kid when he was about your age - do you want get messed up with that?
2007-01-17 16:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT! If you're that young, and he has a kid, it will not work. What happens when you move in with him, and he expects you to get a job to help support the child?
2007-01-17 16:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh!! How inappropriate. Apparently he loves children, doesn't he? Let me tell you, when a guy asks if you want to "hook up", there is no love involved.
2007-01-17 16:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋