it seems that all i attract is horny guys, i get really upset because then later i find out that they have someone more meaningful to them who is usually another girl who they have fallen in love with and i end up getting heartbroken and they chat to me about dirty things, i want someone who appreciates me and can talk to me like a good friend and not like anyone but me, is that so much to ask, why am i attracting guys like that? has anyone here had similar experiences?
2007-01-17 07:44:31 · 14 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh by the way, am not those girls that are 'easy' i dont have sex with them nor do i hint it
2007-01-17 07:51:20 · update #1
I bet your attractive, dress nice and somewhat sexy? The more skin you show on a hot body the more you will attract the players (horny guys). start dressing more conservatively and try being less flirtatious even if you think your not being flirtatious. If you really want to meet the nicer guys when your out at a club or dance look for the normal looking guys standing off to the side talking most of the night, these are not players, just normal (usually good) guys who aren't very good at meeting woman, all there hoping for is an ice breaker
2007-01-17 07:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think every girl in the world has experienced this problem! Choosing men is SO complicated and you'll kiss a million frogs before you find your prince. The simple solution is to test the waters and NEVER get too close to a guy for a long time. I've been burned so many times it's ridiculous. I finally decided that the guy I'd end up with is going to have to chase me for a long time before I give in so that I know they're serious and dedicated. Good luck!
2007-01-17 07:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. That used to be all i attracted. If i were you i would stop looking for guys. Let the right one come to you. If a guy really likes you for who you are then he wont automatically start by talking dirty to you. The reason why you could be attracting guys like that is the way you dress, the way you act, or by who you hang with.
2007-01-17 07:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by volcom_babe1988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound crass. BUT word gets around you've become known as that type of girl. Which i'm going to say your not cause your asking for help on how to get rid of these guys.NOW not ALL guys are like this. BUT your best bet is when you meet a guy ask to meet his friends. His female friends if he has any they will generally let you know how his record is with women. Don't sleep with him too quick and if it comes to the point of him trying to say vulgar sexual things change the subject and let him know you're not that way.
2007-01-17 07:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by ag2588101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have a lot to do with the way you present and carry yourself, and even the way you dress and the way you talk and the jokes you laugh at...If it dresses, walks, talks, and acts like a ho, it's a ho and will never be treated like a lady. Clean up your wardrobe...get rid of the hoochie, bar ho clothes, stop smoking (if you're a smoker) stop cursing and stop talking dirty and flirting like a horny little trollop...act respectably and people will respect you...
2007-01-17 07:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... look at it from another angle. Maybe you are choosing all the wrong guys. All guys are horny... but what makes them to be with a girl is the girl giving them atttention. I think its impossible to find a guy who is not horny. So make wiser choices and think they are all men. Choose the lesser evil.... Its going to be fine... Enjoy yourself in the process and you will be fine.
2007-01-17 07:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cerebraltissue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be one of two things...you're either showing too much skin in your wardrobe or maybe you're just one of those extremely hot girls
that every guy cant help but to like. I'm actually gonna guess that you may have a combination of both. its not just one type of guy you're attracting...your problem is that you attract guys...period. And sorry there really is no fixing it. But look on the bright side...you could get virtually any guy you want...you're free to choose...
2007-01-17 08:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Brady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very common to attract the wrong kind of guy over and over. I have done this! I suggest to just stop dating for awhile. Once you stop that, you can work on yourself, with councelling, self help books, etc. Once you realize what you are worth and once you are strong enough to deal with your dad and possibely even tell him that he did you wrong and you do not accept disrepect,.... than you will be able to move on to what you deserve.
2016-05-24 00:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are horny. You need to wait at least a month or two before you sleep with them. If they are still around, they want you, not what you can give them.
2007-01-17 07:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit making yourself so vulnerable. Don't have sex with someone right away and make them respect you. It'll get you alot farther.
2007-01-17 07:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by ib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋