2007-01-17 07:41:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, definitely not. Meeting a guy in a local pub does not mean a person should have to sleep with him. Get to know him, he might be someone you won't really like. You are the only one who can decide what you want to do. Maybe this guy's goal is to get laid and that is why he went out. Is it yours? If not then don't do it.
2007-01-17 07:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by jeannie_quin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!
A woman in her 30s should be smart enough to know the answer to questions like this. I don't mean to offend you but why do you go to pubs to meet guys? There are a lot of guys out there (I'm one of them) that will not go into pubs. The smell of booze/alcohol makes me sick and ever though I'm a smoker, I can't stand all of the smoke in bars. If you meet a guy in a pub and he asks you to sleep with him right off the bat, he's no good for you or anyone else, he's only in it to get laid.
2007-01-17 09:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U asked an interesting question..its a personal opinion thing to me.
I stepped back into the dating scene a few years ago after seperating from a 16 yr relationship. I was very surprised at how after the 2nd date, 3 out of 4 men assumed we were to sleep together, and I just don't get down like that myself. When I expressed how I felt, we just stopped dating becuz I wasnt putting out and it was a mutual decision...so I'm just upfront about it now.
Funny thing is, when I discussed this with some friends, I got mixed opinions...some thought if they looked good to go for it? some were particular like me. For me, until I get married, I'm alright...too many diseases out here, and condoms dont protect from everything....
You just gotta do you, doll.... just choose wisely.
2007-01-17 07:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a woman in her late thirties would be mature enough to make the decision about sleeping with any guy for herself and not do it because its expected by him, his mates or anyone else.If you can be sure he's not some psycho lunatic, and you want to do it, then go for it. Just make sure you keep yourself safe
2007-01-17 07:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a woman expectations are what she believes in.
Nice to see single woman hanging out in Pubs, not just bars and dance clubs
2007-01-17 07:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this all kinda depends....Are you 2 flirting. Heavy making out sexual suggestions.........If not and you 2 are just talking then no. Whether your late 30s, early 20's or mid fifties no woman should demean herself just because her society say's she's expected "to give it up" Be strong and respect yourself unless your just in the mood for love that night then by all means do your thing.
2007-01-17 07:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by ag2588101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. No guy should ever expect a woman to sleep with them. Pretty desperate of them to think so.
2007-01-17 07:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Final Answer!
No woman of any age is "expected" to sleep with a man no matter where you meet him! Unless you want to...
2007-01-17 07:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by FrazzledMom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you should be expected to sleep with a guy after meeting him in a pub in a far away city!!!!!!
2007-01-17 07:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No nothing should be expected. It is all up to want people want to do. Never sleep with somone on a first date.
2007-01-17 08:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by kingpaulii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋