............................ my fiance told me in a joking matter since i didnt want to tan to get darker he will throw some gasoline on me and strike a match
2007-01-17 07:37:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont live with him but he knows where i stay
2007-01-17 07:40:51 · update #1
he been married 3 times but how do i know what happen to the other gals he said one disappeared
2007-01-17 07:42:12 · update #2
the other day he mention that he would put a sledge hammer in my gential area this stuff is not funny
2007-01-17 07:43:30 · update #3
im just wondering does he have a mental problem then he just laughs out of no where
2007-01-17 07:45:15 · update #4
when we first met he was nice he just start doing this stuff
2007-01-17 07:45:52 · update #5
he wants me to change my name too . he told me he already change his name and that he have warrants i dont know if i should do a back ground check or what
2007-01-17 07:47:32 · update #6
he already rubs my skin very hard
2007-01-17 07:49:13 · update #7
lastnight he ask me do i like to start fires then he told me he likes to set houses and clothes on fire
2007-01-17 07:51:46 · update #8
Put one foot in front of the other!!!
2007-01-17 07:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a safe place he will never find, don't go to close relatives or close friends. Go to somewhere he don't know like a old childhood friend that you are comfortable with. Or a distant relative and don't tell anyone where you are at.Lay low for awhile get a restraining order and move where he won't look for you. If he's nutz, write a statement about how unsafe you feel about this person and leave the information with someone you trust to give it to the police if you end up missing or worse. Move out of state.Disappear.
2007-01-17 15:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by mamabearliddell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...once you start fearing for your life in a relationship, I think it's time to get out. Being your fiance, I would assume you would know if he was joking or not...but I wouldn't want someone saying that to me whether serious or not. Call the police, get a restraining order, and you may want to consider moving...or at least staying elsewhere for a little while.
2007-01-17 15:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by MissDiva1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said it in a joking manner, then it sounds like you don't know how to take a joke. What a bore.
I wish I could still give questions a thumbs down. You sound like the one who is crazy, constantly coming up with more and more details. You give the impression that you're making stuff up as you go along.
2007-01-17 15:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a very dangerous relationship. Normal people do not kid about these things. Your fiance, I'm afraid is intimidating you, controlling you by fear, and this is a form of abuse. Please consult a police, therpaist, counselor, or priest/minister, and find resources so you can get out of there...quickly!! your life and future depends on it. its better to lose someone you love, and be alive, than take the risk and possibly a fatal choice. dont play with your life. i hope i'm not overreacting but i take the side of safety.
2007-01-17 15:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. your finds a place for sure he doesn't go you to find
2. to go to police's station and to put the accusation to your boyfriend
3. change your home you look for another State
4. try that alone your best friends know the place where your you are
5. try not to answer any call of him
2007-01-17 16:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Andres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he meant it as a joke. But if you actually believe he is capable of this then get out. Good Luck
2007-01-17 15:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by hasgr8boyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, LMAO, funny. I;m sorry but it was funny. Maybe he really was joking, but I would keep one eye open. Find out if he is serious and if he is capable of doing that before getting married. Once you get married it will be hard to get away.
2007-01-17 15:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not very funny and is in poor taste for a joke. If you think he is capable then get away from him, but if he was only joking then give him a stern warning that his sense of humour sux.
2007-01-17 15:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi! im alianis and im really sorry but your fiance is a jerk!!!!! he should"nt do that even if its a joke! i do know how to leave him first call the police and finally leave him even if he says he is going to kill you or if he is gonna change,because if you show fear he will do that more and more.i wish you the best of luck alianis
2007-01-17 15:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by alianis h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes saying stuff like that then there is something wrong with him and you need to tell some one like the hot line for abused woman and they will tell you more on what needs to be done good luck
2007-01-17 15:42:43 · answer #11 · answered by hanusya101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋