i meet him of the internet, he lives 4 hours away we have been talking non stop on phone, computer, he wants to meet me but im scared i wont like him whenever it comes down to him accually being there i dont know what my problume is iv seen a picture of him but he also says that pic was an 1 or 2 ago and hes changed alout.... he loves me ALOUT, we havent met yet, hes 1 year older than me i have never really had feelings for someone this is my first time for anything having to do with relationship wise...i CARE about him so much....i really really really want to have feelings with him whenever we meet just scared that we wont....so if yo could help me why i feel this way plz
2007-01-17 07:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're scared that you won't like him, then wouldn't it be better to find out you didn't like him now, rather than after wasting even more time?
Just remember to be safe, meet in a public place, blah blah blah.
2007-01-17 07:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, I'd be worried about how old you are. You sound like you're a little young. Presuming that you're a fully-grown adult, you should go meet.
The only way you're ever really going to know is if you take the shot.
I'm currently trying to work something very similar out. I met someone on here who I think is everything I've ever wanted, and I'm scared to death of it. Honestly though, I'm not scared that I won't like her... I'm scared that I'll love her.
And she won't like me. Or we won't be able to resolve the distance. Or somehow I just won't be good enough. And it's really terrifying to consider.
2007-01-17 07:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can meet him but in a very public place, and be very careful. He can tell you anything on-line. Bring a friend with you or something when you meet him.
2007-01-17 07:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea to meet him. If you are really desperate, I think you should bring both of your parents with you and watch over your safety. You never know who that guy is. He could be a killer or something. Safetly 1st remember!
2007-01-17 07:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very easy to have feelings for someone on the net. They can say everything you want to hear but I am sure there are aspects of her personality you do not know. If you decide to meet him, please do it in a public place just to be safe.
2007-01-17 07:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Be careful, there are definitely some creepy people on the internet.
Make sure you keep your first few dates all in public places until you make sure he is who he says he is.
Above all, don't let anyone take advantage of you.
Good luck.
2007-01-17 07:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by pmtb2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and meet the guy.
2007-01-17 07:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet him ,it wont work out ,u will get hurt
2007-01-17 07:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'LL KNOW EVERYTHİNG WHEN YOU MEET.. İF YOU WANT TO LİVE WİTH THİS FEELİNGS NEVER MEET. REAL LOVE İNCLUDE SEX AND OTHERTHİNG. MEET NOW OR NEVER
2007-01-17 07:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋