I know whats coming. s k a n k, b i t c h, h o e, etc.
but i have finally come to let it out.
and i really need help.
i really really need help.
deep down i know that i love him,
but i keep flirting with other guys.
and they start having feelings for me..
i feel like i'm playing with everyone's heart
but i know who my heart really belongs to.
i know that so many people have been broken hearted because of your s.o cheating.. but i don't kiss other guys, or even hug them.
well i'm flirting and breaking hearts... and whoever said flirting is just fun.. was wrong.
for once in my life i feel like i'm truly in love.
but how do i keep myself from hurting him?
2007-01-17 07:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm not gonna call you anything in your first line. What I will say is this...
Relationships take discipline. Plain and simple. If it's flirting today, not capping it now can easily become a slippery slope. If you're really in love, then do whatever it takes to catch yourself before you really *do* give the wrong signal to the wrong guy...
Now also we need to discuss how you define 'love'. you stated "I feel like i'm truly in love", and I believe that most of society has had their concept of what love truly is warped. feelings are a part of it, but they're not the be-all and end-all. the best definition of love I've seen in print is this: a completely unconditional concern for the well-being of the other person. If this is what you and your boyfriend have, then staying faithful is fairly simple. So then the question is, what's the definition of love you think you have? if it's simply a feeling, then I'd recommend you re-evaluate your expectations of the relationship, more clearly define 'love', and go from there. Chasing a feeling is like chasing the wind. you can't keep it, and all you get is tired of running after it.
Joey
2007-01-17 07:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Voyager529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is work 24/7. If you truly love him, your thoughts would not be impure to the point of hurting him. I am sure he looks at other women too, he is human, but you have to want to make it work, maybe you need to step back to be sure your really happy in that relationship.
2007-01-17 07:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just like the attention, as alot of others do. Each time you think you are going to flirt, think of your b/f and turn around and walk away. It is something you have to stop in order to not hurt the one you love.
2007-01-17 07:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly in love you wont cheat. If you love somone you would do everything you can not to hurt them
2007-01-17 07:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come over we can "talk" about it..... no but really flirting is fine just dont go any further than that if you do you better break up asap
2007-01-17 07:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Umphery's Mc Joe'S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confess your sins. truth is always the best option.
2007-01-17 07:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Keyser S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs closed except to him..........................
2007-01-17 07:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by unnoneuser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋