Well i told this guy i liked him and now someone who was close to a best friend(the guy)stopped talking to me he wont even look at me y??
2007-01-17 07:28:31 · 12 answers · asked by xASHx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy that i lost was the same guy i told i liked
2007-01-17 11:00:36 · update #1
guys are weird creatures. he could really like you or he could be scared that your friendship will be ruined if he tells you he only likes you as a friend. you need to talk to him. he is the only one for sure that knows how he feels and if he tells you he only wants to be friends you shouldn't be made cause obviously you mean something to him if he wants that.
2007-01-17 07:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by porkey_jrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to my friend when she told her guy friend the truth about how she felt about him. I asked him what his problem was and he said he felt that if he talked to her that would make them a couple and it made him feel weird about there friendship. But a few days latter they were talking again and let me tell u what u should say to him to make him feel beeter: "I'm sorry I made u feel that way and after I said i liked u i felt weird about it too. I take it back and i only want u as a friend again." Even if u still like him don't tell him or make it so obvious he might not talk to u as soon as u tell him but give him some time to heal and to help start talking to him about things u used to talk about.
2007-01-17 15:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Phyched4Christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are really bad at communicating their feelings. Sad to say he probably doesn't feel the same way about you and he doesnt know how to deal with it other then ignoring you which is totally immature! I would confront him and let him know that you share your feelings with him because you wanted to open the lines of communication not have him ignore you. If he is a best friend you both can move past this and be best friends again.
good luck!
2007-01-17 15:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prolly freaked him out! Some guys love hanging out with a chick but dont want them to get the wronge idea.
2007-01-17 15:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lu Lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like the other guy might like you and is jealous and angry that you don't like him. You might want to talk to him and just tell him how you feel and see what his problem is.
2007-01-17 16:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels that ya'll are too good of friends, you should try asking him what's up. or maybe it's because he likes you too but he doesn't know how to tell you. You should go up to him and talk to him.
2007-01-17 15:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His best friend has a thing for you. Now, he's jealous cause you asked out his friend instead of him
2007-01-17 15:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Donna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a guy thing
2007-01-17 15:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably feels uncomfortable around you. don't worry about it. if you pretend you never said anything, he'll forget it.
2007-01-17 15:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe he doesnt feel the same way. t2 him about it
2007-01-17 15:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋