Ok.. So i ended up in bed with a married man. and after this I just couldnt stop thinking of him. He was on my mind 24/7. I felt like I had to tell him this. He seemed surprised. So was I, I never thought I feel like this about him. I didnt tell him this in hope to break them up. I just needed to tell him to get it out. Is it wrong to tell someone how you feel about them, even if you are pretty sure they dont feel the same. Now, I would like to know what he thinks of me for doing this. All married men who cheated on their wife, and regreted it. How would you feel in this case?
2007-01-17 07:26:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So...what makes you think he regretted cheating on his wife? Keep in mind that as far as you know, he cheats alot. He may tell you he regrets it to avoid having to see you again....but that's probably not true. There's no harm in being honest--but it may not serve your own best interest in this situation. He was probably flattered, but concerned that you would pursue him. You probably want to let that fish go.
2007-01-17 07:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong you slept with him in the first place. Number 1 how would you feel if you were his wife? Number 2 you want him to have feelings for you, well let me tell ya, if he cheated on the woman he's married to it was for a good time only. He won't have feelings for you. Why would you want him too? You're only thinking about him because you know you can't have him. Move on sister and find yourself a single man.
2007-01-17 15:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a married woman until another girl ended up in bed with my man.
Personally I think that its wrong. A woman should never go after a married man. As she is ruining not only his life, but the lifeo f his wife and his children.
Personally, I think you did wrong. I could never sleep with a married man and feel good about it. (I am now a divorced woman, thanks to pple who do this. And my 5 year old will never know what its like to have two happily married parents.)
2007-01-17 15:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh heavens --- women feel more attached than men after having sex. That's why you have to be careful who you have sex with (among many other reasons) -- because it's just how women are made --- it connects them emotionally to the man. And you're right --- 99% of the time married men do not leave their wives and if the woman they're cheating with declares her "love" for them, they usually feel threatened and run fast the other way --- they don't want attachments, just sex. Good luck
2007-01-17 15:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know what he thinks, you need to ask him. No one here can give you the correct answer because they are not him, nor do they know what exactly lead to you two ending up in bed together. Plus, no one here knows what this man's marriage situation is, or if he's the kind of guy who likes to cheat.
2007-01-17 15:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, your problem is that you told him your feelings? And not that you slept with a married man? If you don't want to break them up, what do you expect from him?
2007-01-17 15:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i don't thiknk that your wrong on having feeling for him,a dn its more of infatuation really. and you are worng for sleeping with a married man though, and he is also wrong because of the fact that he cheated on his wife. don't feel bad that you rold him, just be glad taht you have it off of your chest, but to tell you the truth i just think its becasue you just slept with him and your infatuated and its really nothing, just lay low for a while and i'm pretty sure that it will cease.
2007-01-17 15:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u allow yourself in the future let your husband go out and cheat u how come u went out with married man are u crazy wake up don't be in love with him.. OK...
of course if he had a heart he will feel shame of himself.
2007-01-17 15:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same position, and to tell you the truth i haven't regretted it,i love him so much and he loves me even more,he says i make him feel like he is younger. ilove him and want him to be with me,he doesnt love his wife he only married her to get his citizenship. now he is sorry. if u both feel the same way try it wat do u have to lose.
2007-01-17 15:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put yourself in the wife's shoes and you'll have a better answer. If you told him - you told him!! Move on.
2007-01-17 15:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Michael K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋