I always seem to attract younger men. No matter what I do, they range from 26 to 35 and thats it. Im mid 40's and I know looking good for my age, without sounding conceited, so why is it that some men like me at this age and some like me but are embarrassed by my age, even though they fancy me?
2007-01-17 07:22:46 · 23 answers · asked by runningbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
Love works with any person regardless of age color nationality values morals etc. as long as the persons involve are willing to work the relationship by taking the responsibility and make the necessary commitments and agreements.
Communication, tolerance, patients and sincerity are the basic keys for a successful relationship.
As long as you both set up boundaries and limitations so there are no miss understandings, the relationship will work.
I'm in my 40's as well and I have learned that being an easygoing person helps in a relationship.
As of why younger men are attracted to you, is well known that younger men are in search for casual relationships and because you are a good looking woman, you are a good candidate. This doesn't mean that all younger men are looking for an adventure, some of then are willing to take it seriously but the majority isn’t.
If you wish to talk a little more about it, you can email me or send me an Instant Message.
Best Wishes.
2007-01-17 09:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Eduardo S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it can work. There's always exceptions to the rule. However, did it ever occur to you that a 30 year old might be attracted to you now, but when he's 40, you'll be in your mid 50's. When he's 50, you'll be in your mid 60's. Maybe the thought of that scares them a little and that is why some get embarrassed. Or maybe some men get embarrassed by the idea of dating their mother and are too worried about what other people think. If that's the case, then these guys aren't right for you. Stick to the young guys that are not going to be embarrassed and will respect you they way you deserve.
2007-01-17 07:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was having this same conflict in a relationship and almost backed out,than a friend said to me"why are you making stupid rules about who you love?,basing it on age,your both adults,you get along great ,He has more intelligence than the other people you've dated,can keep up with you,he-he ,and it's so hard to find someone that's right for you.Why throw it away over some rule that you can't date younger men,why not just follow your heart,why break your own heart over what other people will think?There not going to hold you at night,and be there when you wake up."I am so glad she straightened me out and I didn't lose the best relationship I ever had.
2007-01-17 07:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have the same problem. 26 year olds can't get enough of me at the moment! I'm 32 although I do look younger.
I think the older woman thing is a bit of an attraction for some men. More experience blah, blah, blah. I do have a bit of a hang up about it although my friend is married to a man who's 10 years younger than her and they're really happy so it can work!
2007-01-17 07:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that love will last between you and a man in his 20's. You remember what they were like when you were in your 20's. They haven't changed. Every guy would have sex with an older woman if she was attractive enough. It's that simple. The guys who are "emberrassed" by your age are simply trying to tell you that you aren't good enough to marry. If you present yourself as a sex object, then that's how the men are going to treat you. How about finding an attractive man in his 30's. I'm sure you will have more in common and better luck at keeping him. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-17 07:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think younger stud boys are more aggressive towards meeting woman than older men, love can work at any age, it's interests and compatibility that are some of the differences between age
2007-01-17 07:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget what they think --- what do you think? Listen to your heart and you'll be fine. If a 26 year old is interested in you then why not. To answer your original question - love can work at any age its easy; the relationship is the hard part.
2007-01-17 07:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it can. But I think there may become a problem if there is such an age gap that when the older one becomes 60 things start to fall apart. You get even more wrinkly, everything droops, etc. I think then they will look elsewhere. BUT in the meantime. ENJOY!!!
2007-01-17 08:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though they're younger, they still have enpugh maturity to know about the give and take in a relationship, and not just the wants, so don't worry about age if it's your only concerning factor.
2007-01-17 07:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yess of course it does, age is just a number its not important at all! Don't let it bother you and interfere with you and your relationship if you attract younger men fantastic go for it while you have the chance !!
2007-01-17 07:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by bex_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋