I broke up with my boyfriend and wanted to get laid but i dont really no this dude im over my ex though
2007-01-17 07:20:27 · 56 answers · asked by sherriyonda b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. Don't judge yourself by other people's standards. If its right for you, its right for you. If you aren't hurting anyone else, and its going to make you happy--whats the big deal?
2007-01-17 07:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well why would you think you're a whore? It's your own personal business. Society has said that women shouldn't act the same way as men do, but times are changing. It only matters to you how you see yourself and how you feel about the situation. And if you're over your ex, then so be it. Just make sure that you're protected at all times.
2007-01-17 07:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by ksfinney17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are both adults and both knew what you were getting into than no you are not a whore, you are human and have natural sexual urges society tells us that women should not have one night stands or casual sex but thats just stupid if men can have casual sex than so can women just be safe about it and dont make a habit of sleeping with a new guy every day then you would be a whore my suggestion is to find a guy that you have sexual chemistry with and get yourself a friend with benefits this is a good solution since you can have your casual sex and still be safe about it since it would be with the same person, also you dont have to commit to bed buddies.
good luck and god bless
2007-01-17 07:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by VanillaDiva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not a whore. That's very derogatory, but at the same time sleeping with someone you hardly know isn't exactly respectable. Don't do anything that will make you lose respect for yourself and also since you don't really know this guy you may want to think about the possibilities that he may have some std's. Be safe and more importantly be smart!
2007-01-17 07:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin G 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if your devorced, or broken-up with the guy you used to be with ........No, your not a whore!! Things happen, you know!! Especially when we're drinking!! If you enjoyed yourself, than I would have gotten his number, and start to dating him, to get to know him a little better, then that way you can feel better about yourself, for doing it the first night you met, you know..... Otherwise, hey if your single, dont beat yourself up so much!! Your entitled to have some fun!! And dont think for one minute your Ex , isn't out doing the same thing, you know!! I used to feel that way, when me & my Ex, first devorced, and it took me a long time before I dated, it was 2 years before I actually dated this man I had a relationship with, but I kept thinking about David (my Ex) when this new man was in my life!! But it was only because David had such a Stronghold over my life!! My EX was so "Controlling & Abusive" to me, that I literally was all messed-up in the head for along time before I dared to date!!! But, guess what? I just got asked out, today by this guy who I've had the "Hots for, for some time now!!" We're going out this Saturday!! And I'm so scared!! This is only my second relationship in three years, since our devorce has been final !!! But, I'm going to make an honest effort, not to even so much as think one bit about my EX!!! And I'm over him completely now, so maybe this will turn out to be a Successful date, and hopfully many more to come, in the future!! We'll see? I'm really "Old fashioned when it comes to men, and the whole dating thing!!! I hope he takes me to Laughlin, its only 45 minutes away from where we both live!! He doesn't live with me, but in the same town as me!!! I'm so scared just talking about it !!! Anyway, dont beat yourself up, and dont listen to any of these people who can be very rude on this site, at times, hun!! Who are they to "Judge" just dont even read their NONSENSE, if it starts out mean, you know!!! Smile!!!!
2007-01-17 07:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing more beautiful than a woman who knows what she wants. Provided you are not trying to "get back" at someone or the motivation to get laid is spiteful, I say go for it and use proper protection. My only hesitation is this: it is always better to know the person before sleeping with them.
2007-01-17 07:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a whore cuz you're tryin to get laid girl. We all go through this stage. Get to know homeboy better, then possibly he can be a candidate for the "homie/lover/friend" position you currently have open. Unless you're looking for something "real" ... then your best bet would be a one night stand ... cuz it takes lots of time to discover something "real" and you sound like you want some dick immediately! Good luck with that .... hope you find what you're looking for!
2007-01-17 07:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well sometimes people want to get laid because they want to satisfy the need so that they could forget about the other person.
2007-01-17 07:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no your a good girl im the whore you just want some so get out and get yourself some .... or come on over I can help you out
2007-01-17 07:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Umphery's Mc Joe'S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you arent a whore you are just trying to get over your ex. A lot of people do it. Just be safe and know that sometimes this quick fix isn't always the best choice.
good luck!
2007-01-17 07:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sam s 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You would be called a sl*t.
A whore does it for money.
Normal people do it for love.
Sluts do it cause they want to get laid.
2007-01-17 07:43:35 · answer #11 · answered by Fritzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋