My gf and i dont spend any time together anymore. We used to have lunch together but i got my schedule changed due to some mistakes in my schedule. Its like im bein neglected. idk what happened. The only thing we could do is talk on da phone. im tired of just talkin we need more action. everytime we're alone her friends come and take her from me. I kno her friends are more important, but what should i do?
2007-01-17 07:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by Rich 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that you would like to spend more time with her without her friends around she should understand
2007-01-17 07:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i take it thats youre in high school. so am i high five haha j/k. most girls will put their friends above their boyfriends because most high school relationships dont last a long time and their friends will be the ones there for them when they break up. she should find more time for you but dont make her choose between her friends and you because you WILL lose. try to see her after school or something. like join a club or sport together or just chill. if it seems like shes trying to avoid you then maybe shes trying to tell yous hes not interested anymore and yall need to talk.
2007-01-17 07:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i'm not sure the place to start...your tale is somewhat difficult to maintain on with. you're very youthful to be doing any of the activities you suggested. At 15, you will desire to be focusing on your self, going to college, getting stable grades, mind-blowing out with girlfriends, paying for, etc. you have gotten your self into an exceedingly undesirable triangle. If I have been you, i might end it with your boyfriend considering the fact which you already know you isn't waiting to be elementary to him. stable good fortune!
2017-01-01 07:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...guys do the same thing to girls...in my experience u need to tell the person that u feel neglected...they probally don't see it as neglecting u...then ur gf will probally try to spend more time w/ u...but sometimes girls have really important things they have to do w/ their girlfriends....u need to be a little more understanding...try spending time w/ ur guy friends when u know ur girl is out w/ her girls...good luck...
2007-01-17 07:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the expression "Bros before hos?" Well, it's the same for girls, too. If you want time with her, just invite her over on the weekends. It's that simple.
2007-01-17 09:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to spend adjust her schedule so she can spend time with you and her firends.
2007-01-17 07:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to some of us ,but if you really like her tell your girlfriend that you want to spend more time together than apart.
2007-01-17 07:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by a.v(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. thats what my bf does when i spend to much time with the girls. i try to keep it equal though.
2007-01-17 07:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs her space.
She has a mind of her own, her friends don't take her from you!
2007-01-17 07:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have a life, too. it does not consist of only boyfriends.
2007-01-17 07:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by wildgrace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋