ok...so i was at this party on new years..and there was this guy there...his name was chris..and i knew him from school..he is a year older than me so he had no clue who i was..so we started talking and "flirting" if u want to put it that way..but nothing more than playfulness, and so ive talked to him for about 3 weeks and he has said he was interested in me..and i was in him.. so then i basically devoted my life to the computer as i talked to him..and for the past week he hasnt really been writing me baq..but my friends mom had said something to him..but i mentioned it to him and he said he didnt care what she said..and so about 4 days ago..i went to his flickr and it has a pic of a girl..so i click on it thinking it could be a friend..and it says my girlfriend...sam..i was so upset. adn he hasnt wrote me baq since..so what should i do? should i ask him y he would do that to me..or what..help PLEASE!
2007-01-17 07:11:14 · 7 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Live him alone, you can have many of other guys!! You can hit him with your hand!! Bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 06:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by dr. love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! How painful! A couple of things could be going on here. Maybe you showed too much interest. you said you devoted yourself to the computer. Was that in communication with him? Why did he not ask to see you again. What did the Friends Mom say? That sounds key to me. the other thing is that the picture of his girlfriend may be old or it may be current. I say let it go! If he is interested he will contact you. He can be interested in you and have a girlfriend. Remember, he has only expressed interest not made a commitment. Freaking out will chase him away. Be cool and not tie yourself down to his desires or his timetable. Have you said something to him already? You have not mentioned what he said just that after you saw the picture of his girlfriend he has not written. What do you want from this relationship? Back off and be smart - be as smart a a serpent but as gentle as a dove. Don't let him know always what you are thinking and what is on your mind. Be allusive, mysterious. Warm but casual. Do not, I repeat, do not ask why would he do that to you????? You can ask about the relationship in a casual non threatening manner. Based on his answer you can make a decision on what to do. If he gives you an answer that placates you and you feel compelled to continue the relationship as it is progressing, be careful,...very careful. Good luck and Ciao!
2007-01-25 14:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Nia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he has. Don't waste your time and energy. Boys will come and go through your life. Stop and think before acting. Making the right choices are very important. Think about your future first. What is most important to you? Take your time.
2007-01-25 10:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Godlover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you that he will probably just lie to you or be really mean and make you feel like s***. guys tend to not know how to just be honest about stuff like that. so your best bet is to just forget about him....im sure you deserve better.
2007-01-25 11:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by n&z-mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop obsessing and move on--not worth your time!
2007-01-17 15:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
CRUSH THE cris...........only better way.
2007-01-25 14:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by ghettu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2007-01-17 15:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋