My ex (an engineer )who got married behind my back and he claims to ve seen the light and my current who is a dr and jst proposed. the catch is i think am still in love with my ex.
2007-01-17 07:07:01 · 22 answers · asked by Jessy A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
helpful!!
Think about what not who you want,
where you want your life to go, and how you want to live.
Think aboout your whole life
not just what your emotions are telling you right now.
Think about kids and getting older
It may be that one or neither of these men are what you need.
Please don't make an irrational decision based on a rush of emotions.
good luck all the best
2007-01-17 07:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by ..***.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your ex are in the Brier patch and everyone is stuck in a sticky wicket. What light did your ex see? That you are best of the best on this planet or that he just made an error in judgment? Which of the two do you like best and trust the most. Could you be with one and not think of the other? You claim love for your ex but not for the MD. Less depends on them and more on you. Good luck.
2007-01-17 07:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your ex got married so tha should tell you something right there. Why would you want him back when you have a respectable guy right now? You need to leave the "ex" in the past and move on and be happy. You deserve happiness. Good Luck
2007-01-17 07:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry your current. Your feelings will fade for your ex whether you go back to him or not. If you went back to him eventually you would start to feel insecure and then resentment that you gave up a great guy you could trust for him.
Alos what does the occupation matter? If you are that shallow then perhaps you will have an unhappy ending anyway.
2007-01-25 06:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by jupiter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW can you love a guy who cheated on you,Either you have a bi heart which needs an operation or you are dum....
No way get going and enjoy your life with dr. who can take care of vitamins,protiens at the same time .... other wise you may end u being single looking for third still loving the first !!!
2007-01-17 07:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by maik_nk123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult? well as you are asking you obviously dont love any of them enough to choose, so it seems as you've based it on jobs that it may be linked to Salary. Well my love go for what makes you happy not the money, it never works unless you're Anna Nicole Smith (and she had a rough ride... so to speak) So back to you who do you love, who makes you happy and more important who loes you more? If it was me it's too late to see the light once bitten and all that and a Dr.....work with them so no ta!
Get a new one it's easier! good luck
2007-01-17 07:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know why u think their professions are significant lol....just kidding......babe an ex is an ex for a reason....why would u want to be with someone who got married behind ur back..if he has dogged u once he will dog u again...personally i think ur ex will never leave his wife for u and just wants u as a booty call...he must have thought the girl he married was better than u to marry her in the first place ova u.....to be honest i think u need to cut ur ex loose he is nothing but trouble.....then u need to be sure u want to be with the doctor chap before u commit urself to him....good luck
2007-01-23 12:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by LYN p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Dr, if the Ex could do something like that then he obviously doesn't love you!
2007-01-17 07:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can't quite follow your heart because your heart belongs to someone whos heart belongs to someone else.....in other words you can't have your ex because he is already married...leave him alone don't complicate things....don't get married to the current b/f until you know that your heart only belongs to him and no one else..it could just be that you are having cold feet about getting married and a weee bite scared...a DR come on now that's all I have to say a DR!!!!!!!!
2007-01-24 17:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ melisa ♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr? Jst?
2007-01-17 07:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋