This summer I went out with a girl for 3 months. At the end of the summer, there were some issues with both of our families that caused her to say that her life was too hectic to have a "Boyfriend" right now. I was ok with that because my life was pretty crazy at the time too. I started dating on and off since, but within the past month she's been calling, emailing, and we've hung out watching movies.
I guess the issue is we were getting pretty serious in our relationship before we stepped back. I don't want to rush anything but I don't know if we have to start from the beginning or do can we pick up from where we left off.
2007-01-17 06:56:53 · 19 answers · asked by Robert B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already answered your own question. And yes sweety, you pick up where you left of or if you rather start from the scratch (but not really because you already know basis about each other) - its your choice, under one concern though....take it at SLOW PACE and you are going to be just fine. It looks like you just suppose to be together or something because you just cant get away from each other for too long, huh....?! :)) Good luck!
2007-01-17 07:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start at the beginning. 3 months is nothing. Get to know eachother again and make sure that the issues you had over the summer are no longer a problem. Take it slow and see how things develop. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-17 15:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have to start right at the beggining, but maybe not where you left off either. A happy medium should be good. Get to know each other again and become involved in each other's lives. i guess it alse depends on you too and how comfortable with each other you are feeling at this time. Talk to her and see where she thinks you guys should go from here.
2007-01-17 15:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is important to get an idea of how hectic your lives are now and if that old flame still burns inside the two of you. You seem to get alone which is really nice. Make sure that when you talk to her that you don't put her on the spot--just try and get some feedback.
2007-01-17 15:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her. You both have to decide where you want to pick up. If things were getting pretty serious, you should be able to talk about any issues you have now. Apparently she wants to be a part of your life or she would not have resumed contact with you.
2007-01-17 15:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is are you both ready to commit yourselves to a relationship, if you are then you can pick up from where you left off, if you both reallylike each other than your families will see that even they can't stop you.
2007-01-17 15:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by londonrometokyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather awkward at times - but - just enjoy what you have now and when you are both ready to express any previous regrets, they will come out naturally. Right now - just go with the flow!
2007-01-17 15:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start at the beginning. The past is over. Today is now.
2007-01-17 14:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just pick up were u two left off. if she don't want to then start at the beginning.
2007-01-17 15:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start slow, if you pick up where you left off, things will start off big and will snow ball from there. Start from the beginning and see where things go from there.
2007-01-17 15:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Heather F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋