i've been seeing this guy for two years now and I always catch him looking at other women like porn women in skimpy clothing this bothers me & he knows it what should i do
2007-01-17 06:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look at it with him....join in....
2007-01-17 06:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys look. It doesn't mean they're gonna do anything. I'll bet you check out sexy men when you see them. It is human nature to look; if you still don't trust him after 2 years, the problem may lie with you.
2007-01-17 06:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always look at women. It's in their blood :)
As long as he is just looking and not touching, I wouldn't worry about it. He isn't causing any harm. He is YOUR boyfriend, not theirs. Don't let it bother you so much. Good Luck
2007-01-17 06:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just plain disrespectful. look guys are always going to look, but when you are with him he should not be gawking and checking out other women. Say something or dump the loser and find someone who is respectful and considerate of you.
2007-01-17 06:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start paying more attention to the fellas, so after he finishes looking at another woman he can catch you looking at another man. He will not like it.
2007-01-17 06:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always believe do unto others as they do to you. Do it to him and see if he likes it I dont think he will. Sometimes people need it done to them to realize how the other person is feeling.
2007-01-17 06:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by myluckydakota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see how it would offend you, you should let him know that its disrespectful for him to do it with you standing next to him...As long as he is not cheating on you, he's doing no harm. Tell him to stare on his own time.
2007-01-17 06:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like clue # 1 that he will cheat or maybe has already. You should be the only one he looks at especially when you're there!!!
2007-01-17 06:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by ferrisfamily@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is going to look at woman but it sounds like an obsession.seek a councillor or get him to talk about it with you about this addiction before ur relationship is wrecked by it.
2007-01-17 07:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it bothers you, sometimes guys are just oblivious to the fact that certin things bother you, maybe he wont look so much when you are around then
2007-01-17 06:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him look as long as he is not cheating on you. and start looking at guys too. two play that game!
2007-01-17 07:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by Special K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋