Okay...i like this guy but theres a twist! Hes my best friends ex boyfriend and my ex boyfriends best friend...what do i do??!?!!!
2007-01-17 06:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all, my best friend is totally ok with it and yes, he likes me back! Shes the one that got us to start talking but the catch is, he nor i have talked to the other person, his best friend and my ex...and im not in good terms with him!!
2007-01-17 07:05:10 · update #1
Woah that is crazy. Well, I can relate to liking a friends ex guy, but this is over the top, like something in a TV show!!! Well, I guess first things first, ask your best friend if she would feel comfortable with you going out with him. And are you on good terms with your ex? Do you think he would get mad if you two hooked up? If you still are pretty good friends talk to him too. If they aren't ok with it then you have a choice to make: what is more important? How much do you like this guy? I am sure they would eventually accpet it and be happy for you but this is all your choice. Also, do you even know if there is a chance he likes you? Maybe before you talk to your friends ask the guy and if he does then tell him you have to clear it with some people because you don't want to hurt them. (or whatever way you want to put it.) Good luck!
2007-01-17 06:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the guys in the world, why would you pick the one that should be off limits? Do everyone a favor and stay away. Is he even interested in you? Why start something that will probably end bad? No guy is worth hurting or losing a best friend over.
I just read your additional details and see that your best friend is okay with it and he likes you too. It looks like this one is really up to the guy. He's going to have to decide if his friendship with your ex is more important or if he'd rather date you. A lot is going to depend on what your ex thinks about this whole thing. I do think it's weird that your best friend is okay with this. Is this a high school or adult relationship were talking about? Good luck!
2007-01-17 06:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're courting a specialist contortionist who acts as a human pretzel? What? heavily, inspite of the shown fact that, what the heck are you speaking approximately? Twisted? Like emotionally tousled? nicely then in basic terms circulate on, for crying out loud, you deserve extra effective.
2017-01-01 07:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends and girlfriends are off limits whether there ex's or not, do you want to ruin your friendship with your best friend? Don't even go there!
2007-01-17 06:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him. ur friend will understand. as for ur ex boyfriend who gives a **** about him.
2007-01-17 06:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always find a new best friend. go for it.
2007-01-17 06:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusing lol but whatever go for it
2007-01-17 06:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, just let it go.
2007-01-17 06:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. why not? what doesnt kill you makes u stronger...lol
2007-01-17 06:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woowwwwwww........... run.
2007-01-17 06:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋