just tell him out in the open and don't make a big deal about it afterwards if he doesn't like you like that
2007-01-17 06:45:07
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answered by JennLee 3
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You seem really young, and I guess I want to spare you the delusion that there is a fool proof way to do this. The bottom line is that there are different types of people, and generally speaking, depending on the type of person you are, and how nervous you are about bringing it up or saying anything, the person that will make it awkward is you, if it isn't mutual. And I'm not saying that you will make it awkward in the moment, but it will sting, and suddenly, it will change on both sides, not just his. Suddenly there's this truth out there, and you're vulnerable, and you don't know what's going to happen. You will have to deal with the rejection and try and save face in the same breath, which is not an easy task.
Ultimately, you don't know, and right now, he either has a good idea that you have feelings for him or he is completely oblivious depending on how well you're hiding it. If I were you I would weigh exactly how important this friendship is, and how much of a gamble you're willing to take. For instance, if he constantly talks about how hot your friend/sister/roomate is, PLEASE spare yourself the agony of having your heart ripped out and don't do it. There's no reason to set yourself up.
BUT! If he's single, likes to spend time with you, and he notices you when you walk in the room most of the time, and has sought you out more than once, and not just for a favor, I think you've got a shot.
Best of luck to you, because I know it isn't easy.
2007-01-17 06:54:20
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answered by Dayton S 2
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well it depends..if the guy friend is close enough to you that you can visit him. Than simply go at his place on some evening and have a bit of chat and than just ask him about " there is this place called .XXXX ( X being some cool bar or low crowded cozy restaurant ) where you never been and would he like to come along ? " , sure any guy wud say yes..! just offer him the dinner and while you both are out ask him some stuff about relationships and his feelings and simply say in some sweet time in the chat that you kinda like him and would he like if you can see each other. You can also try asking him to come along for a nice movie, some cool park or some beach ( if you have one there cos thats the best place to have emotional chats ) and if he is a net pal don't even think about asking cos its just attraction.. Last but not the least I would like to say " There isn't anything better than true love to ruin a perfect friendship "
Wish you the best ..!
2007-01-17 06:52:07
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answered by Rockytruelyrox 5
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Umm.. flirt with him. Does he have a girl? If he doesn't ask him some relationship questions.. like
What do you look for in a girl?
Are you looking for a relationship now?
Hey, so tell me.. is there any special girl in your life?
and etc.
*Good Luck*
2007-01-17 06:47:21
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answered by WiseGirl 4
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Just simply ask him & tell him that you would still be good friends as you were before. And talk to him as you did before (if he says no). Its that simple :)
2007-01-17 06:51:01
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answered by hmmm 4
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Try dropping hints instead of just coming out and saying I like you.
2007-01-17 06:47:15
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answered by Crazy K. 2
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he's going to feel akward anyways. but just tell him. it'll make you feel better and he probably even feels like the way you do too.
I say go for it!! good luck sweety
2007-01-17 06:46:02
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answered by So DeLicIouS 1
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You can't. It's a rare situation to go from friends to more than friends if feelings aren't mutual.
2007-01-17 06:45:32
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answered by Cameron L 4
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just go and talk to him and tell him you have feeling for him and you never know he might to ..and something good come from it ...
2007-01-17 06:50:22
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answered by bonnie 3
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if you love someone... tell them coz hearts are often broken by words left unspoken ;) good luck
2007-01-17 06:46:56
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answered by corpsdevorator 3
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