for helping me clean up after the wedding? I think they are but they all seem to think otherwise. Any ideas?
2007-01-17 06:38:30 · 19 answers · asked by Halley G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you, as a bride, should not be doing any cleaning up!
2007-01-17 06:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who ever helps decorate for the wedding should also help clean up afterwards. The maid of honor and best man are responsible to help with whatever you need and it is their duty to gather the bridesmaids and groomsmen together to help with those things. At the same time, some people feel that they had to pay for their dress or rental and put in a lot of time so they get a little aggitated... have your maid of honor and best man help if the others do not want to.
2007-01-17 06:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my best friend got married, my bf and I were in the wedding party. We were responsible for clean up along with the bride and grooms parents. That is just how it worked out in the end. I would say that the wedding party is responsible because that is why they are there. Not only to support your marriage, but also to help in any details they can. We actually helped in the set up as well. I don't know what the true answer is, but that is how my experiences have been. The bride and groom do nothing at clean up though....you go off and enjoy your first night as husband and wife!
2007-01-17 07:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is cleaning to be done, they should help...you shouldn't have to clean anything!! I've been a bridesmaid and never had to clean, but the vendor was in charge of that so it didn't come up. If you have the money and it is someplace that isn't cleaning for you, mabye you should hire someone. It would be so much easier, even if they should help, no one will want to clean after a wedding.
2007-01-17 07:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Either family or friends are responsible for going and cleaning up the day after the wedding.
2007-01-17 07:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the Bride! You don't do ANY cleaning up. Your maids are in charge of making sure that is done. Your location most likely will do the big clean up. Just have your maids in charge of anything you brought, your gifts, cake etc.
The Best Man is in charge of paying anyone who needs to be paid that day. So you and your new hubby don't have to do anything but show up and look good :) Have a great time! Don't stress! And take a moment to enjoy it all...it day/night passes by WAY too fast!
2007-01-17 06:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think they are. Where are you having the reception at? My girlfriend had her wedding reception done at hotel and clean up was included in the package. The only thing she had to do was pick up her table decor. If those items were left in the room they would of been trashed...but her parents took care of that. I did walk around and pick up the cameras she handed out for the guest to help take pictures with.
2007-01-17 06:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that if they are your good friends (as they should be) they would want to stay and help you clean up to try to make your day as stress free as possible. My family and honor attendants plan to help me set up before and clean up after the wedding.
2007-01-17 06:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by orangeflameninja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you are having at a place where they have people to clean up after you, then you need to ask them to help out. They can't expect you to be the bride and be walking around in a gown cleaning up everyone's trash. Maybe ask one of your parents to head up a clean up committee and get people to help them.
2007-01-17 07:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 01:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by sicilia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, Ive been in several weddings and Ive always helped.
Maybe you can make a special mention about it and say something like help clean up and we'll all have a drink together afterword's. make it rewarding and not pressured.
2007-01-17 06:47:02 · answer #11 · answered by holefannn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋