i was at home when my friend called me and said she saw my boyfriend with another girl so i call him and dump him though he was saying he won't do it again, then two days ago i catch him with a girl that goes to my school what do i do?
2007-01-17 06:35:35 · 46 answers · asked by lovinthelife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AND you have to ask us??
C'mon.. You are not "really" the sharpest pencil in the drawer.... are ya?
Good Luck
All jokes aside...
It is not easy to hurt.. and when hurt then you feel the need to "prove" yourself.. be strong hon and stay away from him...
2007-01-17 06:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop being so gullable. Every guy that cheats is going to say they will never do it again. If a guy cheats once, he will do it again. Leave him alone and find someone else who has more respect for people. Keep in mind that guys will say anything to girls to get them to do what they want. You need to be smarter than that. You have something they want and you need to make them earn it. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-17 06:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump him but do not take his calls or see him and start seeing other guys. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Essentially you are dumping him but who said you have to tell him you are dumping him. Let him stew over the fact that you are out with other guys and when he confronts you you have the chance to turn the tables on him.
I always say fight fire with fire.
Good Luck
2007-01-17 06:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lance D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl make tracks leave that guy he find out that he lost the best thing that every happen to him once a guy cheats he always cheats even if he doesn't do it right away move on with your life and take care of yourself ok
2007-01-17 06:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by sugargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone.. he sounds like a loser. If he didn't even wait more than a week to cheat on you he's nothing but a two timing dog...
What you need 2 do is.. Go to school looking really pretty.. make him drool and talk to someone he doesn' t like right in front of him. Make him jealous.
2007-01-17 06:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back with him, he is a loser and a player, you don't need that type of person in your life.... say adios! If they do it once, they'll do it again, that is why never date a married person, or a person with a gf already because there is a very high chance they will do the same thing to you as they are doing to the person they are currently with.
2007-01-17 06:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "with another girl" were they just talking on the street or were they sitting in a dark corner necking?
Don't go getting all crazy because your guy has female friends. However, if you've got irrefutable evidence that he has in fact been unfaithful then by all means kick his butt to the curb.
2007-01-17 06:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you, that proves once and for all that he can't be trusted, get rid of him. Why, because you are just letting yourself be fooled and taking the misery to go with it. Just thank your lucky stars that your not married and its not going to cost you 10,000 dollars for a divorce. Thats what happens when you find out too late. The choice of course is yours, personally I think you will make the right one, now that you know the facts.
2007-01-17 06:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you again? Looks like you're not special enough to him. Just dump him save your dignity. It's not nice to hear from others what your guy is doing behind your back. Be strong, move on.
2007-01-17 06:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by marynmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. What I know now is that a man will only do what you allow him to do. If he knows that he can cheat and get away with it because you'll still be there waiting on him, why wouldn't he keep doing it?? My advice is to let that sleeping dog lie and find someone else who will respect you and treat you as you should be treated.
2007-01-17 06:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by MissDiva1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... My boyfriend sorta did this but he did stuff online. Such as looking at people he knows on cam... and he did it again asking someone i know about like their bra size.... Well yah i stayed with him and i have major trust issues with him... It's really hard to get over. So its all up to you. If i could go back i would have probably broke up with him but my chance is gone now and we have been through alot together.
2007-01-17 06:43:52 · answer #11 · answered by georgia_gurl345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋