When do you know if there telling you the truth? Why does it hurt so much when they say they don't?
2007-01-17 06:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by Hopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously, you love the person that has told you they love you or you love a person, that you wish would feel the same about you, Unfortunately, it doesn't always work that way, First of all there are different levels of love, I just wish they would love you like you love them ..........
GOOD LUCK
HANG IN THERE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-17 06:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really know if they are telling the truth- that's where trust comes in- hopefully you feel that you can trust your partner.
Why does it hurt if they say they don't? Probably because you put yourself out there with some pretty strong emotions. When they say they don't feel the same way that you do, it leaves you wondering what you have done wrong so that they don't love you- like are you not good enough for them or something along those lines.
2007-01-17 06:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by churnin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel like they are not telling the truth then you don't trust or don't believe on them. If no Trust or belief is there than its hardly worth trying. And Frankly I believe " there is nothing better than true love to ruin a perfectly good friendship " So If you want some true love go find yourself some good friends may be one of them turns to be the love of your life. And it hurts when they say don't cos they simply don't and your care and trust goes into vain. Why do we look for love ? B'cos we want trust and caring from someone without any limits and someone that can share your thoughts and be your soul mate. So it will hurt when you look for someone so close and it falls apart.
2007-01-17 06:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Rockytruelyrox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when they prove it. It hurts so much because its fun giving in to the thrill and novelty of new love....the butterflies and the long gazes....that is what we live for. It hurts when someone is insincere, doesn't it?
But, we have to learn to stop "wearing" whatever random people throw our way. We have to learn to love ourselves first, and once you have truly done that, you recognize when another genuinely appreciates it.
Good Luck!
2007-01-17 06:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bye how they say it...you have to believe if you don't well its that there not telling you the truth...It can hurt alot if they say they don't
2007-01-17 06:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess thats the hard part of life Love and not knowing if people are lying. And it hurts because you really do still love that person.
2007-01-17 06:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts b/c they dont think enough of you to tell you the truth
2007-01-17 06:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them as much as you can, sometimes you can't tell that they are not telling you the truth. That's why they say love is blind.
Love is the most passionate and amazing emotion there is, yet, it is the most lethal.
2007-01-17 06:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by MB's Gal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone wants to be loved. i knew when my husband told me that he loved me for the first time, it was the trueth. because he had light in his eyes. there were times when we had arguements but he never said that he never loved me.
it hurts when someone that u love say that they dont love you. we are only human beings. most of the time people are emotionally, physically invested in that one person. it hurts when it doesn't work out.
but no one should ever give up looking for someone for them.
2007-01-17 06:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by crystal_ball62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body loves me, never had any body tell me that they did not.
I must be a sweet person
2007-01-17 06:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by shufly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋