Theres a guy I've been talking to for about 4 months. I had a bf when we met but we clicked instantly. It was crazy how into e/other we were.Since I had a bf though he started talking to other females,I couldnt say anything cause it wasnt my place. Well I've been single for 2wks now.About a wk ago we planned a date where he ended up bailing out on me at the VERY last minute and I mean I was parked in his neighborhood and everything.That was it for me so I stopped taking his calls, he would text I woudnt answer.It lasted for a wk where he was blowing up my phone with texts,calls, vmails.I finally decided to answer him & he apologized blah blah blah. I gave him another chance.Now that I gave him another chance I notice hes been talking to this one chick that I knew about way more than me, basically giving her way more attention like hes into her more.I dont like being 2nd best so why the hell did he make such a fuss to talk to me again?
2007-01-17 06:25:07 · 6 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm thinking about just telling him I dont want to talk to him anymore.When I got out of my relationship with my x I wanted to just talk to guys but not take them seriously you know but I LIKE this guy and I dont want to get attached just to get disappointed you know.
2007-01-17 06:26:19 · update #1
Oh and he claims that he wants to do whatever possible to make up for dissing me on that date, but it doesnt really seem like hes putting much effort into wooing me again. Its kinda like I was getting more attention from him when I wasnt even talking to him.
2007-01-17 06:29:24 · update #2
UMMMMMMMMMM no his excuse as to why he bailed out on me was because "he was just too nervous."
2007-01-17 06:37:17 · update #3
Look I just dont want someone to be playing on and off with me. One minute hes all into me and wooing me like crazy and the next I get the shoulder? If you think one way about a certain person you shouldnt lead them on and then give them the cold shoulder.
2007-01-17 06:41:49 · update #4
dump him
2007-01-17 06:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either testing you because he doesn't know if he can trust you . Because when you met you had a boyfriend , or he wanted what he couldn't have and now that you are around the chase is over . I would date other people . When he calls the next time pick the phone . If he asks you out the tell you already have a date . If starts giving the third degree about then tell him look you are single , you gave him a chance and he blew you off . So you cant wait forever and you cant plan any more dates with him because he dont need you time wasted .
2007-01-17 14:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by nyasha33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are asking for a lot from him since you havent even gone on one date yet. Dang girl you dont own him. What do you expect him to do? He can talk to whomever he wants to and so can you-if you think hes dissing you because he talks to someone then you want more than most guys are willing to give at this point in your (non)relationship.
2007-01-17 14:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to be friends. To test him...make yourself scarce. When he calls, answer to him but leave him hanging. Cut his conversation short, when he wants to do something tell him your busy. Still see him sometimes to keep him wanting more though. He will come running if he wants to be more than friends.
2007-01-17 14:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Treyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a spoiled brat. He doesn't give you the attention that you wanted when you wanted it.. wtf??? Give the guy a break. Don't call him he doesn't need your crap. Maybe something did come up!!! You are immature. He tried to call you and you didn't answer. Why are you wasting his time?
2007-01-17 14:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Michael L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do him a favor and stay away Phsyco.
2007-01-17 14:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋