2007-01-17 06:21:29 · 30 answers · asked by Nikkilovejeffrey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My goodness child.. YOUR mamma didn't raise any fools.. did she??
YOU just answered your own question by stating what your fears are if you got back together... YES HE WOULD CHEAT AGAIN... once is just NOT enough for that type of person.
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-17 06:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go slow and see what happens. Long distance relationships are like any other, you win some, you lose some. Sometimes it is a good thing to have someone so far away, and sometimes it's not. If you can, maybe you two can pick a spot that is mid point between the both of you and talk/meet. Be honest about your feelings, but don't put yourself in a situation where your bound to get hurt. Ask him how he feels about you. You never know he may feel the same, but may not say so. Knowing where each of you stand can guide you on how to pursue the relationship i.e. friends versus possible lovers. Even if he doesn't feel like he wants a relationship with you, if he is a nice guy and you respect each other, I would continue the friendship. good friends are hard to find.
2007-01-17 14:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by darciamoonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! i had the same problem wen i was living in Stockton california and my boyfriend was living in san lorenzo, california. we ended up breaking up because there really is no point in being with him if you're too far apart. He didn't cheat but I did. Its better to break up for a good reason like " I don't want to hurt you because I love you too much" than to break up over getting cheated on or u cheating. I say break up.... or find a way to see eachother.
Good Luck hun.
2007-01-17 14:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by So DeLicIouS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how were u cheated? relationships are work enough as it is when youre close to someone but be realistic in a long distance relationship that one or the other might need to reinforce their feelings or need to have some close contact with another human.
your relationship may or may not succeed. if he still wants to continue it...try to find a way to be near him. if youre not the understanding or forgiving type. move on. peace
2007-01-17 14:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheated on AGAIN? With all the stuff going around out there, that is like him putting one bullet in the revolver and then pulling the trigger by your temple. Maybe it will kill you and maybe it won't. But he certainly doesn't care. It is better to be alone and have your self esteem and pride then to give someone the power to hurt you. Hurt me once, shame on you, hurt me twice, shame on me.
2007-01-17 14:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with yourself and what you really need and want. It seems that there's a voice inside of you that's causing you to think about this. Pay attention to that. Don't go crazy with fear, but rather try to think about what would put your heart at peace. Maybe you need to be in a relationship with someone closer to you, where you live. Good luck!
2007-01-17 14:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by rivermercy911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how far apart you are , you can send love notes by mail ,send messages on the pc ,talk on the phone and meet on the weekends . you need to trust the other person and love the other person very much to do this . It will take all of you r committment to this .
2007-01-17 14:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he gives you reason to doubt him doubt him! if he is a cheat he will cheat on you!!! distance should not be a reason to cheat! With technology nowadays there is no reason to be afraid that your man will not feel loved! id if he is really into you, he will not cheat... remember that!
2007-01-17 14:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a long distance relationship also, and it takes work. it also takes a lot of trust, lots! if you cant trust him, then youll never succeed in the relationship. the hardest part is not being there for the bad times and the good times. if you both want it to work, then it will, but it takes a lot of communication
2007-01-17 14:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by mein.fuhrer14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you said cheat on again probally hes going to do it if its a long distance relationship.now talk to him right and just ask him if he needs some time
2007-01-17 14:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by moniquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋