if they (family members) were manipulative and crazy?
2007-01-17 06:20:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. They are your family; not you. be honest from the start.
2007-01-17 06:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating? If the relationship is still new, then you can wait. However, if the relationship is getting serious it's a good idea for you to introduce him/her to your family. If your family is part of your life, then they will likely become part of his/hers. Are you close to these crazy family members and love them anyway? You should be honest with him/her and let him/her meet them and form their own opinions. They have a right to know what they're getting into. Good luck!
2007-01-17 06:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes/no. Depends if you fear the bf/gf will think you will be the same. But I would talk to the family first about it. Family is family and at the end of the day, they will wish for your happiness.
2007-01-17 06:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have to hide him unless you aren't allowed to date. But otherwise just be like hey i have a boyfriend/girlfriend and you will probably not meet them unitl i know that they are into this relationship enough to deal with my family. I'm sure that if you brought them around your family they would try to be a little more "normal". If not.... yeah hiding sounds likea good idea
2007-01-17 06:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~BelAnge~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah. At least for awhile, until you were really comfortable and secure in the relationship, and your partner knew what to expect. Also, depending on age (and here I'm thinking 18 & older), you don't have any obligation to tell your parents about whom you're dating and whom you're not dating. Specially after you move out. But if it gets serious, you might want to let them know, just because it's important to you.
2007-01-17 06:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good is hiding someone? be open and honest and that includes crazy family members.
2007-01-17 06:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, at least until you warned the gf/bf of your family and why you are hiding it... they may be hurt for a while tha tyou don't want to tell, but it will be better in the long run... trust me i kno from experiance!
2007-01-17 06:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Doz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not, If I had a boyfriend I would be prous to have him meet my family..............ahh but ALAS..i have a husband so id hide any bf lol.........just kidding. But seriously I'd let him meet ut ppl sureeee
2007-01-17 06:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If the relationship decides to get serious, he's going to have to meet them eventually. Might as well see if he's man enough to handle them now.
2007-01-17 06:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see i have a preety strange family and i always question it then i just tell the person in advance the they are a little strange so please forgive them.But i would not hide them away.
2007-01-17 06:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 06:25:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋