that he wants to be with you forever, loves me with all his heart, wants u 2 have his kids if u've been dating for like 6 months?
2007-01-17 06:20:02 · 28 answers · asked by laura m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm. Well my grandfather proposed to my grandmother after only 3 months, and she asked him "What took you so long?" And there were married for over 60 years. It just depends. It does sound too soon, like maybe the guy is just swept up in the honeymoon infatuation phase, then again, maybe he just feels a connection with you he has never felt with anyone else before. It really depends on his age and how experienced he is. If he is young, like teens or early 20s, I would think he is just inexperienced, but if he is in his late 20s or 30s or older, he probably knows what he is talking about.l
2007-01-17 06:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! You know what's crazy.. I'm in your same shoes lolol I've been with my bf for 6 months and a week. What a coincidence that it so happens that we were talking about that last night. He told me that he wants to marry me and have kids with me, that if it were up to him and if he had the money, he would marry me tomorrow =) Although I must admit, it did kind of scare me a bit because we are both young and well I'm scared that he feels like that now and in the future he won't feel that way. I just don't want to get my hopes up and than later on be disappointed. Point is.. that I just took it as it is. He knows that we are not ready to get married, and I know that as well.. but there is nothing wrong to think about your future. It doesn't mean that he is thinking of marrying you now, it just means that he is thinking of the future and thinking of you guys still being together. But I mean if he proposes to you when you are not ready, then that is a different story. In that case he should know (by you telling him) that you are not ready to get married. Other then that.. just live and let things happen. Life is way too short to be stressing things.
*Good Luck Girlie*
2007-01-17 14:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too soon for him to say it if he wants to. But it is too soon to know if it is true or not. Feelings are easy. Actions take time. So enjoy the kind words and have fun, but don't make any long term decisions until you've known each other long enough to really know who the person is, in and out. And that includes when he's pissed off, jealous, angry, depressed, all the bad stuff too, not just the good stuff that happens in the beginning of the relationship.
2007-01-25 10:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha my boyfriend told me that within the first 3 days we started officially dating. i was weirded out especially because i don't want kids!
i'm not sure if there's a certain amount of time that you need to be going out for before it's okay to say it. i think it depends on your relationship. for a commited couple in a healthy relationship that has been dating for 6 months it might not be too soon, whereas 2 years is definately too soon for a couple who is on and off and fights all the time and cheats on each other.
so it depends on how you feel about each other and how good your relationship is.
2007-01-17 14:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be too soon. Does if feel like it's too soon? If it feels like it is, then it is. That is your gut talking. Listen to it.
Could just mean that after 6 months he is just liking and loving you more and more, and this is how it makes him feel. Maybe this is how he expresses the wonderful feeling he has about you, that it makes these things seem possible to him.
Why are you asking us? Ask him, or tell him it is too much, too soon and you need him to bring it down a level. If that is what you think.
2007-01-25 09:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not to soon....course depends on how often you were dating during those 6 months. But some people know when they've found the right person and obviously he feels that way about you. How do you feel about him?
2007-01-25 13:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by ldswarrior2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There would not be enough space on here to write how many times in my life, I heard these same words.Take your time. Slow down. The hormones are running wild when you are young. Especially in young men. This is usually referred to as lust. Just be friends and take your time.I don't know how old you are actually, but you sound younger, by your question. I can't tell you how many times I thought I was in love, when I was in my teen years. Just wait, give yourself a time to grow. Remember your education, it is very important, believe me. God Bless you sweetie.
2007-01-25 10:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Godlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating umm...how long have ya'll been friends??? you can love someone and want them to have your children and not even be dating them, as long as you know that person for some time. Dating has nothing to do with the point of time when you start loving someone...have ya'll known each other before you starting to date? I loved my hubby 2 months when we started sating but we knew each other for like 2 years before that
2007-01-25 01:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ melisa ♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive in love at first sight so after 6 months, no I don't think it's too soon for someone to know they are with who they want to be with for life, but it may be sooner than you are ready for and that's OK too. Sometimes it takes one partner longer than the other to know it's really right.
2007-01-17 14:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all.i feel the same way about my girlfriend and weve been talking/dating for a little over a month now.we plan on getting married as soon as she is of age and i fly there to meet her and her family.follow ur heart.its the best decider.
2007-01-17 14:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by keiihci morisato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋