cuz me and my gf r having problems and i dont want to ruin our friendship but our relationship is goin down hill, i need all the answers i can get plz, thnx
2007-01-17 06:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Antonio 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best tip is that long distance relationships dont work. Why try? Look, there is no point in being with someone if you can never really be with them. you two are holding on to eachother like there is noone else in the world. Let her go and you do the same, let go. its is unhealthy for two people to try to make things work for so long when they both know the inevitable. break it off and find someone who can be there for you whenever you need them.
2007-01-17 06:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best answer I can give you is dont have one. I was in one for 3 years and let me tell you once we both went from 16-19 we realised that this isnt going to work. I think that you should just let go why you two are just starting to go down hill and not already sick of each other. I know its probably not what you wanna hear you wanna hear send her flowers, write a card, tell her how much you care over and over again. But I garuntee some guy who lives there probably already has. So let go as hard as it sounds its the easiest way
2007-01-17 06:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have the two of you seen each other recently or spent a decent amount of quality time together? If you are going to be in a LDR, you need to find time for each other. I also think a LDR can only succeed if it is only a temporary thing. I'm in one now but I know it's only until I'm done school, after I get my degree, either one of us moves or it's over!
You need to have a heart-to-heart talk and decide what you both really want. These sort of relationships can work, but they do take a lot of work and commitment from both parties.
2007-01-17 06:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never really work out but some do just got to think on the positive side.And know where you two are at times so no lies are said and can confuse you two trust is the key but one little lie can reject your thoughts on the relationship.
2007-01-17 06:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live in the united states and my girlfriend live in the philippines.follow ur heart.tell her everything will be ok(and really mean dont just say it).im also having problems,she lost her internet and we have no way of communicating now.she has to stay home and watch her baby sis if she isnt in college.so she doesnt get the chance that much to go to an internet cafe.but we really love each other and we said nothing would seperate us.we keep praying that we will be together someday and we can wait as long as it takes to do that.dont give up.
2007-01-17 06:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by keiihci morisato 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i went thru the same thing but id hate to break it to u it takes two i did everything i could but if the other doesnt try it doesnt work talk to her bout it tell her wat u feel and have a plan on wat to do to make it better k GOOD LUCK
2007-01-17 06:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by ashl2e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best tip? move to where your friend is or dont take it all so seriously. if your friend doesnt take it seriously...why should you?
move on.
2007-01-17 06:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tlk to them heaps n heaps, n stop begging coz it pisses some ppl off!!
2007-01-20 21:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jess F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋