On my birthday my ex boyfrien wanted to take a break and (i quote) "4get about me 4 a while" but he didnt want to set down booundaries during the break. so i told him im not going to sit around and let him do watever he wanted so i told him it was over he didnt fight me and said he would call me when he was ready to talk again. well that was a 3 weeks ago and last week i found out he was with some other grls they are 14, 15, and 16 he wil be 21 in a couple months! wat should i do?
2007-01-17 06:07:30 · 19 answers · asked by ashl2e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wanted his freedom and he tricked you into breaking up. Forget him! Move on.
**there is something wrong with a guy when he goes for teenager girls. He is looking for girls he can take advantage of, they are nieve.
2007-01-17 06:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear that he does not want to have a relationship with you right now (although he wants to keep his options open for the future). This "break" is not the Ross-and-Rachel-hiccup-on-the- road-to-happily-ever-after... it's his cowardly way of breaking up while still trying to enjoy the benefits of a relationship. You should probably write him off as a lost cause, and inform him that he can't have his cake and eat it too - it's over between you.
What he is doing with these girls is technically illegal (statutory molestation/rape) and he should know better - he can get in big trouble, and these girls are too young and too impressionable to know better. I would suggest looking after these girls (all women are sisters, and you should try to help your little sisters when possible) and warn them that dating an older guys can be dangerous, and that he is NOT interested in dating them exclusively. If you don't know who the girls are, warn him that he should refrain from such illegal activities just to gratify his irresponsible libido.
consider it good riddance to bad rubbish, sister!
2007-01-17 06:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on!!! If he is trying to date 14/16 year olds, he doesn't sound mature enough for you. If he wants to date jail bait that's his business. Just dump him and find a guy who will treat you right.
2007-01-17 06:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. If he is going to think about setting this down to you now I would be concerned if you had a long term relationship. Plus with the girls that he is seeing now...That is against the law.
2007-01-17 06:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to move on. Any 21 year old guy hooking up with early teen girls is a dog! count your blessings and move on.
2007-01-17 06:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth ur time really but before u completly forget about him CALL THE COPS hes one sick guy
2007-01-17 06:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got a child molester on your hands. Run while you can.
2007-01-17 06:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report that child molester to the police.
2007-01-17 06:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called statutory rape. Frankly, ew. Forget about that loser.
2007-01-17 06:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hang to something that ain't going nowhere. if u hang on to a thorn u will get pricked. move on!!!
2007-01-17 06:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by ktamay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋