I am married. When I go out with a group of friends there is one guy who always flirts with me and I enjoy flirting with him. We always seem to end up talking dirty to each other. The other night after we had been out He txt me and asked me to send him pictures of myself and he would return the favor. Well, I did and he did. Does this make me unfaithful?
2007-01-17 06:06:07 · 69 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love your husband then forget this guy!If not then finish your relationship and move on.How would you feel if the roles were reversed?
2007-01-17 06:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
This is how it starts - just learn form it and dont do it again. It was a bit of a laugh that went too far and your husband would definately not like it if he knew so just forget about it and make sure your friend deletes the picture. I dont think it makes you unfaithful but really you dont want it to go any further - esspecially if these dirty chats happen on nights out if you have to many drinks or he does it may go further and you will feel terrible for your husband and feel awkward with your friend. Dont beat yourself up about it but dont let it go further
2007-01-17 06:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Islandgirlss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea it is cheating in a way.
When you got married, you made a promise to your husband, that you would be with him and only him till death do you part.
Imagine how your husband would feel if he found out, or if it was the other way around.
Sure it's tempting to stray when you're in a relationship or your married but at the end of the day, it's just plain 'not fair' on your husband.
Stop doing it, or get a divorce! The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
And stop being a slapper!!!
2007-01-17 06:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by kris d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bit of flirting is great to boost morale however sending pictures may give your friend the wrong idea, if you resent his advances he may use them against you.
You need to reflect on the situation before it could get out of hand, the initial buzz you are getting from the attention will change either way.
Which ever way you look at it your husband will want an explanation if he finds out - would your friend back you up.
ps She is asking for your advice not opinions horrid people
2007-01-17 07:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is being unfaithful. It would be nice if you and your husband would text each other and talk dirty and send pics. Why are you doing this with a man that isn't your husband? Is it because it's new and exciting? Well maybe you and your husband can spice things up. All in all it is cheating.
2007-01-17 06:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Belle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay - what if you found out your husband flirted with one particular woman all the time and ended up talking dirty to her? And then found out that the woman asked him to send her a picture of himself and she would return the favour and that had happened?
Would you think your husband was cheating?
Once you've thought it through from this angle, you will have the answer you are looking for.
2007-01-17 06:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is actually a tough question. technically no it's not cheating but sending nude pic of yourself to a man other than your husband is not morally right either. though you are not "cheating" your not being completely faithful to your husband, if you have not already you should let this man know that you are married and make a decision from there as whether or not the two of you will continue to "flirt"
2007-01-17 06:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by musstoffa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are sure leading to be unfaithful, your intent is unfaithful so you are being unfaithful. Hope you discontinue this behavior before you ruin your ;marriage. I always thought girls and guys that are married should not hang out in pick up places creates alot of trouble just like the one you spoke of.
2007-01-17 06:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not unfaithful but very unfair to your hubby. Would you like it if he was doing the same with another woman? There is nothing wrong with a bit of healthy flirting - does the ego good - but there has to be a boundary and it sounds like you are crossing it. Please be careful. You could be playing with fire.
2007-01-17 06:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by wee stoater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating, you have taken the second step, (the first was talking dirty).
Any intelligent person would know, it won't stop there.
You are playing with fire. Your husband probably trusts you, trust is earned and yet can be so easily lost.
I'm no prude, but if I'm with someone, I'm with them,full stop!
He really is better off without a partner he can't trust!
2007-01-17 06:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're husband was doing this with another woman how would you feel? It's definitely cheating, because I'm sure that you wouldn't put up with it if he did it first. You shouldn't be sharing those kinds of intimate details with any man besides your husband. So the answer to your question is a definite yes.
2007-01-17 06:14:57 · answer #11 · answered by shallybles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋