theres guy1. i was dating him for about 7 months, and stuff went wrong and we broke up. but we are both still deeply in love. theres guy2. everytime i get hurt by a guy, guy2 is always there for me. and now we are together. well this morning guy1 called me and asked me back out saying that "it was a mistake to let you go. Im sorry. I love you so much, and i dont want you to slip away from me. im willing to make this work. ill do whatever you want." i love guy1 more then anyone ever. and guy2 is soo sweet.. but which one do i stick with? guy1 or guy2? omg someone please help me.
2007-01-17 05:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think guy #2 loves u more and more than guy #1 because he take care of u and dont want u to be sad and try to make u happy all the time
i think guy #1 is playing another game to get u back and then tell all his friends that he who leaved u not u who leaved him
i think he is silly
my advice for u is to choose guy #2 he loves u alot believe me
2007-01-17 05:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically guy2 was really your rebound guy only. Thats not nice to treat someone who was there beside you whenever you are hurt or in trouble. You broke up with guy1 because of stuff that went wrong and getting back with him wont guarantee that those stuff wont happen again.
You have to weigh on who is worth more, the guy who was there for you all the time or the guy who wants you back after things went wrong?
2007-01-17 05:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you don't know your own mind and that you are treating guy 2 like you don't really care about him and you only go to him when you hurt by another,or guy1 he there for you and i think you being childish girl grow up you have a man thats there for you no matter what and you treating him like dirt and i think you need to take some responsibility for your action and decide which guy makes you happy.. A guy might says he love you but what he is really saying is i want to get back in your pants.. i think guy2 sound nice and you be a fool to let him go.
2007-01-17 06:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by sugargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny love is not simple!
i see you understand that. it is filled with these kind of problems.
you have to look into the future and see wich guy will never hurt you and be by your side.
if guy 2 was always there for you then he will understand if you went with guy1.
and if guy1 dosnt understand that you chose guy2 . he is not worth it.
but if you love guy1 more then anyone and you can never change that then go for it girl!
guy 2 may be sweet but if thast all he is i think he is just a friend and guy1 , it sounds like he is ready to be your prince.
but hunny listen to your heart that is all that you can do!!!
| all is fair in love and war!|
good luck!***
2007-01-17 05:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again there is a reason that you 2 are not together. Since he did all of these changes and is willing to do what ever to get you back, what happens again when he gets another bug up his butt and wants to take flight. Also stop playing with the other guy, because there is someone out there that will really appreciate a good man
2007-01-17 05:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have too much time on your hands. First of all, the first one won't work out, why? because history repeats itself and if it didn't work out the first time it won't the next either. You seem to have made a choice already, your with guy #2, do the right thing and let the guy #1 go, your toying with too many peoples feelings including your own with your indecisive ways.
2007-01-17 05:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Guy #2 is a rebound guy, and that is not what he wants to be. You need to make a choice. Guy #1 has been inconsistent, and perhaps what you feel is love is really just massive attraction to his bad boy ways. Is that really the healthy for you to make? Guy #2 has been there, probably worships the ground you walk on, and you have enjoyed that - but do you want a relationship where the guy is subserviant to you and your needs? Sounds to me like both of these choices aren't really the best one for you.
2007-01-17 05:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by McB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell guy #1 the sitch and say you want to date them both. Tell guy #2 also and do your level best to see he doesn't get hurt. Focus on guy #2's feelings because he seems to be innocent in this. Guy #1 let you go. That should be his problem. Did you tell guy #2 you were in love with someone else before you started dating?
2007-01-17 05:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try guy1 and if he breaks your heart guy2 will be there so you might want guy2 because he's the one to comfort you
2007-01-17 05:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by atlzprincess4lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an idiot.
7 months isnt love its lust. guy 2 should smack you for being your rebound. guy 1 will screw it up again no matter what he says
so forget about 1 and 2 rember love is more then a "feeling"
so go find mr. right its not 1 or 2
2007-01-17 05:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋