One guy was her ex and one was a new guy and she tried to get with one of her other ex's that turned her down. She says she was feeling hurt by our separation and regrets doing anything like that. I am having a hard time figuring out if I will be able to trust her in the future because one of her ex's will be around for the rest of her life because they have children. She is also moving in a couple months a few hours away and I won't really be able to see her but once a month maybe for awhile. I don't know how to trust her again 100%.
2007-01-17 05:42:12 · 6 answers · asked by kws504 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude... you broke up with her.
You guys were broken up and she was free to do whatever she wanted.
This is ~your~ fault. I can't help but notice that you didn't mention why you broke up with her. Are you honestly trying to lie and say that you didn't dump her in order to try to hook up with other girls? So what? You didn't get laid and she did... and now you can't trust her?
This situation is your fault. Either accept that and let it go... or break up with her for good and move on.
2007-01-17 05:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the gentleman above. she wasn't wrong by doing what she did-but i also super definately feel where you're coming from. that alone is devasting even if it is considered right it's more or less the principals. What i'm getting is that she kind of has feelings for her ex. Arguably, strong feelings at that. I mean they share a child! which is the common goal for a long term relationship/family. they have history together. face it, she's moving far away, you won't be able to see her for awhile, and she has feelings for her ex. plus she reacts kind of spontaneous (several attempts to get laid, cuz she was hurt)!. Not good at all. Your first instinct is usually right bro. That really questions her credibility BIG TIME...so to answer youre question no i wouldn't trust her completley given those circumstances.
But just to be fair- you mentioned she totally regrets what she did. so if you believe her then become an item. ultimately it boils down to how strong is your love? you know her best (all us yahoo answer folks are from the outside looking in). So if you shared good times, been through thick and thin, and really do love each other-then go for it. But don't be blind to the facts. anyways i hope this helps.
2007-01-17 06:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have some self admire dude, you're taking her back and she'll just do it once more! I imply it is satisfactory she failed to just cheat on you, but if she truly adored you she would in no way have left in the first place! You two were solution to young to be together all these years! Move on! I could not consider of snoozing with any person else so quickly after breaking apart with any one i love! She's using you now, she left and does not need him, but is afraid to be alone and as quickly as any person fascinating comes along again, she'll be long past again!
2016-08-10 12:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all fairness mate, and I really hate to say this, she didnt do anything wrong. If you guys had broken up then she can sleep with who she wants. Admittedly, a grace period of celebacy would have been nice, but we are all different and react to things in different ways. There would only be a problem if she did this whilst you were together. You either need to let her know it upsets you that she did this but you love her, but Im afraid she hasnt broken any trust here. Sorry, I know thats not the answer you wanted, but its the truth.
2007-01-17 05:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all handle hurts and rejections from our partners differently, I would be concerned how she handles herself in these types of situations, and would not blame you for not trusting her. Since all relationships go through some kind of conflict at one point or another, she might do this again. As I said, if this is the way she handles a break up, then expect it to happen again. Your suspitions are well noted.
2007-01-17 07:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't be with someone you don't trust. Doesn't look like she was hurting too bad to have sex with several different guys. Her having sex with several different guys makes me think she is a wh***.
2007-01-17 05:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋