Well, i have this "friend", its a girl! I have never thought or felt this way ever before. Its wired, i cant explain it. She is Bi, and does flirt with me. I Like it too! i dont know why, but theres just something special about her. I feel RIGHT around her..She makes me laugh, smile, and i can be normal around her. I dont have to feel nervous or anything! Is there a possibility that i might be attracted to her? Cuz im really starting to have feelings for her. Not like i used to, but stronger! Whats going on? is this normal, or do i really like her? Im confused, please help me. But dont be judgemental about it please!! Thanks alot!!
2007-01-17 05:10:21 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Beatty's♥Girl♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the way you speak it sounds like you are falling for this girl in a big way, just by the words used, it sounds like you and this girl get along and are attracted to each other, so if you dont hae any reservations about it, why not go for it and see where it leads? It may not be your thing, and you can move on, or it may be exactly what you are looking for. Dont give a **** what other people think, as long as you are happy, thats the main thing.
2007-01-17 05:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know these new feelings might be a little scary, but if everything feels so right when your with her why not start flirting back and see where that leads, if ye get together maybe it wont work out, but at least you wont be saying 'what if' to yourself, but on the otherhand it may work out and ye could be perfect for eachother.
I say give it try!! Good look
2007-01-17 05:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Delete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something good to ask yourself is "am I attracted to girls in general or just this one person?"
If it's just that one person, and you decide to pursue the relationship and date her, then keep in mind the rest of the world will from then on assume you prefer girls. And the first time someone makes fun of you for swinging that way you're going to want to say "I don't like girls, just her!" which is, well, unbelieveable. Look out for yourself, don't let yourself get hurt. I'll pray for you.
2007-01-17 05:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel you are definately attracted to her there is nothing wrong with that it means youre secure about youre sexuality thats why it feels so right. It is perfectly normal maybe you outta find out how she feels about you who knows what might happen next..
2007-01-17 05:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by amethyst m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just take it slow and see where it goes? If you like her, then go with the flow if you're interested in giving a relationship or a fling a try. Just be careful and be sure of your feelings.
2007-01-17 05:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that anything is wrong with you. You may be bisexual now. It's okay seeing that the world seems to be turning that way. You can't help who you have feelings for. Test it out to see what happens.
2007-01-17 05:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a possibility as is everything on Earth. But I seem to feel that it's just a nice friendship. Maybe I'm naive, but I doubt it. Still, give it a shot if you want to.
2007-01-17 05:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey!It's ok that you feel that way!My friend,a very good one is into girls,there's nothing bad about it!I think you should try to be with that girl and see what will you feel about it!There's nothing wrong in trying!And you don't have to worry about beeing different,we all have some dirty secrets....!Hey,i hope that my answer will help you...good luck... :-))
2007-01-17 05:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are confusing your feeling of a strong friendship with sex.
Talk to a therapist to help you through this and work out your confusion and better understand your own sexuality.
2007-01-17 05:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You like her, but are you willing to accept an affair with a person who is bisexual.?
I think you should go down this road very carefully.
2007-01-17 05:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋