Really Likes Me? I Mean She Tells me she loves me and all that.
And She Said im the first boy shes done things with and im the only one who really cared about her. but sometimes i just get negative thoughts. and i heard that if her leg is shaking while your holding her. She Likes you a lot. And She Calls Me so tempting and all that lol.. but do you think she really likes me. she says she lovess me and i love her too. but idk. i just think negative. cuz i got cheated on a lot. do you think i should worry.
2007-01-17 05:05:22 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust her because t his girl loves u alot
if she does not like u , then why she will live with u she can go out and see for another guy and leave u
but she loves u to death and that is why she trust u alot and u should trust her too and stop this feelings toward her
2007-01-17 05:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of listening to what she says, watch what she does. That goes for anyone.
You also need to realize that your first GF is just that...your first. Hopefully more will follow. Each one will start and end. They won't last forever. You are going to get hurt a few times...everyone does. It's part of growing up.
Still, it's not fair of you to blame her for other girls that have cheated on you. It sounds a lot like the girls that get cheated on then run around saying all men are dogs because they made a lousy choice. Now go enjoy the relationship ;)
2007-01-17 05:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont overthink things my friend, I've ruined a lot of things doing that. You sound like you have a girl who really loves you and you should trust her. If she gives you reasons to be untrustworthy, then re-assess the situation, but just be happy, stop worrying and enjoy what you have. And as far as the leg thing goes, that sounds like a myth or someone once dated a girl with a happy leg, but ignore it mate.
2007-01-17 05:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you got cheated a lot before doenst mean she is cheating on you OR PLANNING. So stop worrying. And God forbid dont tell her that you've been cheated on a lot. This rules works for both, females and males.....no way you want to tell your fresh partner on how someone did you dirty, or why they did you dirty because that will raise a question for them 'why would they and hmm maybe i dont like that about him also?' or 'i didnt even think about cheating on him, but i wonder why the rest of them were?' Dont let her think of stuff like that because people tend to analyze stuff like that too much bringing themselves to open posibilites to follow the steps of your ex'es. Hope it helps. But overall no worries. Let it all go with a flow.
2007-01-17 05:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep thinking negative things, negative things will happen. If she says she loves you, than what are you worried about, when she stops calling you, speaking to you, or says she has a bigger plan in life that doens't include you than worry about it, but for right now, stop thinking she doesn't like you, live life, and go on with it!
2007-01-17 05:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry son we have all been in your situation. If your are getting negative thoughts talk to your girl about this. Tell her that you have been cheated on and that your are just afraid to get hurt again. Girls like that stuff. Don't worry bra just take it slow and don't worry. You sound like you are just a kid and if it works out great if it does not you are still young and their are pleanty of girls out there for you. Peace.
2007-01-17 05:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by The Story Teller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should worry! She sounds a little crazy to me. If she's just started acting like this then you better hope she hasn't found out that you were cheating on her! I've seen people do crazy things, so I wouldn't be surprised if she found out and she is scheming against you. You should worry!
2007-01-17 05:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by kisses1591 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pretty much answered your own question. You have been cheated on in the past and your worried that it's going to happen again. You need to try and bury that (I kno easier said then done I've been there to) and trust that she's telling you the truth.
2007-01-17 05:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should enjoy the relationship and stop trying to find reasons to mess it up! She isn't the one that cheated on you. This leg shaking business has me boggled! Where did that come from?
2007-01-17 05:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she says she loves you then she really does, just because you got cheated on before doesnt mean every other girl will.
Just be honest with her and let her know how you really feel.
2007-01-17 05:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋