and move on? i do not trust my boyfriend/exboyfriend. i went through a nasty divorce. i have huge trust issues. he hates me now. he wants nothing to do with me, saying i'm paranoid and he can't take it anymore. what do i do? i love him. do i just let it go? move on? beg him to love me?
2007-01-17 04:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by higa1980ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fat lady sang, Bye Bye.
2007-01-17 04:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wabbit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I feel you on this one. Ive kinda been the same way and sometimes it surprised me that my fiance is still with me. I still have some trust issues but you have to learn to ignore things from time to time. Like a randome phone call froma female... Ignore it. Trust me u wont be thinkin about it in afew days and he'll notice that ur trying. Now if u kno that ur just being paraniod, when things come up remind urself and think about how much he'll love the fact that your not arguing with him. Just try it a few times and see what happens. I noticed that it only takes less then a day to get over being mad at my finace so why get mad in the first place. That Sh*t can depress you and you dont need that at all babes. Talk to him about it.
2007-01-17 12:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by MzSyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Kara M,
i have the same problem with trust issues. It's hard to let go when you love somebody but sometimes the best thing to do is let go. It sounds like you need some personal discovery time. Get out of the dating scene and discover what you like best about yourself. I have had to do it since me and my sons father broke 7 years ago. It can take a long time, but the best thing is, is that you learn why you have such trust issues. Maybe its not trust but fear? You never know. Let me know if you need to talk, kyishiafrazier@yahoo.com.
2007-01-17 12:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by kyishiafrazier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and dont be so paranoid with the next guy. IF the guy doesnt give you any reason not to trust him, then trust him. BUT always ask the guy if he has EVER cheated before, because if he has NEVER cheated on anyone, chances are he wont cheat on you. If he has cheated in the past, then expect it.
2007-01-17 12:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now!!..this is the best time..no need to stick around for nothing..if he they told you all of that..and you still want them then that bad!!..
let go and move on. I know it'll be hard but time will heal the pain that you feeling, after awhile you get busy doing something else and forget about them you'll see
2007-01-17 12:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel,I cant tell you what you want to here because I don't know you,But I think you will beg him to stay,Because you haven't moved on.You think it better to stay and beg when you should just move on love does not have to hurt.
2007-01-17 12:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by lorraine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r wrong, u r not n the position for healthy relation right NOW. you shoul let him go and protect urself of hearing such words and seeing ur man doing bad stuff to u untill u get over and i mean u get over what happend to u then u r ready to get involved again, now stay by urself to cure urself and no need for noise in ur life during this period.. Good luck..SMILE..DONT ever CRY ..Kisse
2007-01-17 12:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by ReDWiNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rite it seems hard but try to move on i know how hard it is to leave someone u love..try to keep ur mind "busy" find smth that u want to do bad like sing dance and so on.good luck
2007-01-17 12:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by sin_talk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, girl. You'll come out stronger because of it and you'll be happier in the long run.
2007-01-17 12:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is a good time, it is pass time to move on.
2007-01-17 12:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋