ok he was full on for a few months, meeting, txting and calling and then it all stopped when he went on a trip, (comments from him before he went away ran from "i wos to good to be true" to talking bout things we could do tog in the future like dvd days, to nights out.) then after a few weeks back he started to txt again and when i questioned it he told me he was scared of commitment(he wos just out of a relaionship). Then when I ended it he called saying he would have always wondered about me so i ended up seeing him again as really liked him. Txts went bk and forth, he said he didnt want to waste time etc. After spending the night with him again I txt him saying wanted to spend more time with him. He said he couldnt commit and wasnt ready for anything serious. I really liked him did he just not like me? Dont understand? He had told his family about me and really didnt act or seam like a player....... Seemed like a really genuine guy. His last txt said maybe our paths will cross agn
2007-01-17 04:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by akaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you've been played and if you allow him to then he will come back and do it again. Try to move on. He may have changed his mind because you two became intimate and he realized you'd want an actual relationship...
2007-01-17 04:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what happens if you say no the next time he wants to have sex, then you'll know. It seems he likes you but just not enough for you to waste your time. Believe in God and pray that you meet someone you can spend your life with that really loves you all the time.
2007-01-17 12:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Asana Bodhitharta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you.Leave him alone. All he wants is the occasional "spend the night" ,dont let him use you like that.
How do you know he has told his family about you ? Have you met any of his family? I suggest you move on to someone better.
2007-01-17 12:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by TakeNoticeNow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it appears that his ego was busted when you ended it. he wanted to bust up the relationship on his terms, not on yours.
his ego doesnt want you to want anyone else. doesnt mean he loves you but maybe an unhealthy obsession with you. he needs to mature and its doubtful he can do that with you. Im sure youll find someone who doesnt play egoistic head games. peace.
2007-01-17 12:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing a mind f###. I wouldn't let your paths cross again. He is a playa'
2007-01-17 12:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he' a player or keeping a secret
2007-01-17 12:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by rhiannon_kc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he can't makeup his mind ... drop him!
2007-01-17 12:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋