we seperated 18 yrs ago! She looked great and she said I looked hot! Only issue is we are both still with other people. Should we just end it or stay friends and hope for a possible future time together.
2007-01-17 04:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww thats like a fairy tale..if you're both unhappy with your partners then try to be together, this is like something you see in a movie..its fate
2007-01-17 04:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are you in love with this woman or the 18 year old fantasy of overcoming all odds. If you seperated 18 years ago for a good reason you might be headed for a repeat. Also don't assume that because you were with her 18 years ago that you don't need protection. People change.
2007-01-17 12:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Asana Bodhitharta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where your current relationships stand. Are they just casual dating, with no real commitments, and short-term type? If that's the case and you don't feel bad about breaking your current relationship then I guess no big deal. Otherwise let it go, and wait till the time is right. Just because you thought you had some attraction between the 2 of you doesn't mean that there's relationship material there.
2007-01-17 12:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends and see what happens. She probably isn't the same person she was 18 years ago, and you have to ask yourself if it's worth ending your relationship to try to find out.
2007-01-17 12:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass isnt always greener. you cant go around sleeping with every hott chick so why make an exception for her. If you are currently happy, dont ruin it because of lust for someone else. and dont remain friends, the more time you guys spend together, tension will grow and you dont want to put yourself in that situation now do you?
2007-01-17 12:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work the first time....
2007-01-17 12:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you heart tells you....and leave your second head outta the equation.
2007-01-17 15:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. ARE you two happy in your present relationships?
If so, forget it. If not, talk to her and make your move.
2007-01-17 12:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shag! That's always the best solution.
2007-01-17 12:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋