This guy and I had been broken up scince the end of July. He still keeps contact with me and still tells me that he loves me and that he cares for me. But the problem is that he has a girl at the moment and he still calls me his girl. I hear from everyone that he's a player. Everytime he's single hell call me up and say let's be FWB(Friends With Benifits) and then when he meets a new girl he'll just say that we need to be just friends.What I want to know is does he still have deep feelings for me and would it be possible for us to go back out in the future?
2007-01-17 04:13:26 · 20 answers · asked by KRIS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he's a jerk!!! leave him alone. He is just playing games!! He knows exactly what to say to get you in bed and keep you hanging on. Then when he gets into another relationship, he wants to just "be friends" He is a loser and you definitely deserve better....
2007-01-17 04:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by fiveftelevenqt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you already know the answer to your question but it is hard to admit the truth to yourself. This guy is only lying to you to get to use you. In other words, he is saying all the things he feels you want to hear to be able to get into your pants, then puts you on hold (we need to be just friends) whenever he finds another girl to take his crab.. Come on, you have to know this don't you? How can you let him use you this way? Stop seeing him all together as a friend or FWB or otherwise. Where is your self-respect here? Please do not let him use you. If I am angry enough at him for the both of us for doing this to you, don't you think you should be angrier? Dumb him quick! My very best to you!
2007-01-17 04:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him where he is at. This guy makes it evident that he is into playing games and no the ones that have a joystick to direct what the player does. Let him be what you want him to be a friend or one with benefits. If he was your man and you were his girl why would he feel the need to keep changing what you two mean to each other.
2007-01-17 04:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to move on and find you a new guy. You can get the benefits part from someone who will appreciate you outside of the bedroom. If you don't want to be the Holla Back Girl, you better drop him like a bad habit.
2007-01-17 04:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a guy who just wants to hook up with you when he is single and keeps you on a short leash when in another relationship. By him saying he still loves you, I'll bet that is keeping you from getting into a new relationship. You are his back up girl. Get out now. Stop taking his phone calls. Go out on dates with other guys. Don't hook up with him anymore...not even once...
You deserve better :)
2007-01-17 04:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. I actual have a boyfriend. 2. i've got swam with dolphins. 3. I actual have Hilary Duff's autograph. Hmm... i might might desire to assert that the lie is faking a grin :) and that i think of YOUR lie is that your popular shade is eco-friendly :) xoxo love caroline EDIT: you're mind-blowing, i don't have a boyfriend mind-blowing now. i presumed I had you fooled!
2016-10-07 07:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you the truth. You are not hearing it. He does not want a relationship with you. When he is between girls he uses you for sex. It will never be more than that.
2007-01-17 04:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up implies breaking clean. If you are still hanging out and sleeping with him you are allowing him to use you and have no right to complain. You let this happen. He is only using you.
2007-01-17 04:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like a player to me. Move on.
2007-01-17 04:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dear you are his "door mat" welcome to being used...why because you let him treat you that way! Stick up for yourself and tell him to go get F*^$#ed and stop being his play thing. He will never respect you because you do not respect yourself. LEAVE HIM ALONE HE IS A HUGE LIAR!!!!!!!!
2007-01-17 04:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋