2007-01-17 04:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by cavalier_137 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I have found that she fantisized about killing me for one. She will not talk to me, never wants to come by my house, etc
2007-01-17 05:51:29 · update #1
Love them anyway....it is your child.
2007-01-17 04:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by the_twenty_car 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Children? patience is the key word, much love, a lot of caring and assurance on your side. Look for the reason why the child hates you and talk it over. Remember, you are talking to a child, they can be fickle minded. He would like this or that...Be clever, think of a way to resolve the situation. I'm sure he/she wasn't able to get what he/she wants from you. You are far more clever than them. Good Luck.
2007-01-17 04:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a bout of anger, your child may yell those infamous words...but they don't actually mean it. My son went through that stage, and now I'm literally his best friend. (He's 24)
You don't state how old your child is, but kids go through a bunch of 'stages' where they don't necessarily want to be around you, listen to you or really have anything to do with you at all. It's ok...
Love your child for who they are...
2007-01-17 04:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Enchanted 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your child says, "I hate you" then it is probably in order to get a reaction out of you. Most likely they don't hate you, they are just mad at you about something. A great response is "nice try kid."
2007-01-17 04:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My five year old hasn't said I hate you, but she has given me the "I hate you" look many times. My response is always, "you may hate me now but I will always love you."
You can't do anything except love your child.
2007-01-17 04:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Pink1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me your child wouldnt hate you, they only say that to try to get what they want because they know it bothers you and they want the guilt trip...just give them a few minutes to cool off and then talk with them and let them know how you feel
2007-01-17 04:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by wiscountrygirl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you would have given more details. Then it would be easier to answer.
Most of the time if they say they hate you then its to get you to react.
If there is truly hatred then try to find out why.
If you know why then you can fix it.
2007-01-17 04:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I always say but I love you. I wish you had given a little more info.
2007-01-17 05:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by applecrisp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, my 5 yr old tells me that every time he is mad at me or his dad, and when he doesn't get what he wants. They don't mean it, they just want you to feel sorry and give in..
2007-01-17 04:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by dolphins673@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is your kid? do u think that the reason she hates u is because she is not living with u so this is her way to rebel. i don't think she hates u.
2007-01-17 05:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋