I love my girl friend with my all heart.But she does not love me as much as I love her.She says she loves me a bit but not so devoted.the problem is,she loves to be with man,different man.She has plenty of male friends.very less female friends.I have found that she use to play around different man.I have talked with her in this regard.She denies for that.says,they are just friends.Passing by in her life.No feelings involved.She advises me not to be jealous and let her have some room for her self to feel free in her life.My question is to girls and women.Why it is required to girls to play around with different men when they have already gotten true and devoted love in their life?Is it not possible for girls to feel satisfied with one man?Why they need so much room for them self in which their own lover can not breathe?can not find him self in that room!A man loves his girl friend honestly, is that his fault?Why he used to punished with pain,just because he love her?Is that so?
2007-01-17 04:09:19 · 9 answers · asked by Raj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is kind of hard to understand. It sounds like you might be too jelous or insecure as to if those guys are really just friends or if she's fooling around with them, and that answer you will never know unless you catch her in the act. She said there only friends and if you really love her you should believe her and trust her. If you don't trust her and keep up with the jelousy or worry she might be getting frustrated and that's why she feels she needs some more room or space. Then again always keep your gaurd up because maybe she's just not interested in having that serious of a relationship and is either fooling around on you or feels that you two aren't exclusive enough for you to be so worried about who she is around. If it is that she doesn't want to be so close to you, then you should respect that and just let things take their course. Hope I helped.
2007-01-17 04:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by mda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your Girl is really insecure with herself and this is why she needs many men friends. But If she isnt devoted to your relationship then it wont work. Age is also a really big factor. The Younger women are the more freedom they want as far as going out and things so really it all comes down to what you are ready to put up with for the sake of your relationship
2007-01-17 04:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmexi2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never tell you that you should find another girl, because if you love her like you express then mabey you have a chance and that she will recognise it and get more comfertable. But this girl is telling you that she loves you a little, but not a lot. doesnt that hurt? i do not know why girls these days have to have so many men around, when i find that one man for me, its going to be him. i have seen so many girls and guys around here do the same thing and i see all the time the othere people get hurt. try to convince her that you love her and try to make her realize it, if she doesnt then keep an eye out for heartbrake. me? i would never flirt with another man if i was with someone who loved my like you love her. good luck!
2007-01-17 04:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not required, it's just that she might not be sure of what she wants in life especially if she's young. It's not your fault or her fault. I hope this answers your question. I didn't quite catch everything as your English is sort of choppy.
Edit. Listen to the women's point of view because young guys just don't get it.
2007-01-17 04:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by greylady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Raj,
Some girls feel more at home with boys than girls. Let her make a choice, or better yet, you make a choice, Engage her.that should put a stop to her flirting.
2007-01-17 04:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah man, its not that they dont find satisfaction with one man, its just that they give it for granted. u know what they say..."its not till u lose it, that u appreciate what u had". some girls think they can play round and always come back to the one that says loves them. but when a girl starts doing that to me, i simply start meeting other girls and going out with them no matter what my girl says, if she starts complaining then i tell her she gotta stop kicking it with her guys and if she dont stop, then dump her. shes just playin u also.
2007-01-17 04:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by oc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All girls don't want to hang with differen't men all the time, i hang with one and one only, she is just to flirty and selfish sounds like to me. And i don't think i would waste my time on her, you love her but she dosen't love you to much if shes wanting to be with other guys all the time, you need to find someone who wants to be with you and be faithful, don't settle for second, third etc..
2007-01-17 04:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good girl
Before you get a disease.
Maybe old girl will see how dumb she is.
2007-01-17 04:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
take it from me, thats a polite way of her saying she dont want you, oh and fcuk her sister,mum would be better:)
2007-01-17 04:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by scott g 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋