I was thinking of working p/t as "phone" operator for men. I am asking my BF opinions on it and he won't answer. Do you think it would damage our relationship?
2007-01-17 04:02:42 · 30 answers · asked by swtpjgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 34, so its legal. I have a very sexy voice, told by many men and I see it as easy money. My man who is 49, he is not immature, is very good in the bedroom so I can't see it effecting it, but with him not answering its weird.
2007-01-17 04:26:14 · update #1
it probably will, but your young and if you'd like to try it, you only live once ;) Is it something your good at??
2007-01-17 04:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is damaging at all... my girlfriend and I have a very open relationship, but I think as a whole - first it is a job and you are making money as a result, second - it is legal (provided you are at least 18), and third - it is all just talk (it may even give you some ideas for when you are together)... you are no prostituting, or even stripping, you are on a phone possibly thousands of miles away - don't share your personal information and there is no reason it should be a problem!
2007-01-17 12:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear,
I once was entertaining the thought of working at a topless bar part time (i could really use the extra money) And i asked my bf and he very seriously told me no. I don't think a lot of guys like the idea of sharing you with other men. In any way. Unless he tells you go ahead with it. And you think he means it, then you're better off just looking for another second job.
2007-01-17 12:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Amber G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would. He is gonna feel second best maybe in the bedroom. He won't be able ot get the idea of you talkin to other men like that out of his head.. Not a good idea,
2007-01-17 12:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Rain32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. especially if he's the jealous type. Becoming a phone operator could make you prone to cheat. What happens when you talk to a man with really good conversation and you become intrigued by him? If you really value your relationship, i say don't do it.
2007-01-17 12:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not talking about it it's probably pissing him off that you are considering this. Have him open up about it before you make a decision. If you decide to do it..let me have your number. I see nothing wrong with this occupation as long as you keep it to the phone.
2007-01-17 12:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry` G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does "phone operator" mean? If it has anything to do with phone sex, then YES it damages your relationship. You are giving other guys their jollies, and NOT him.
2007-01-17 12:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by betatesterwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would think it would damage your relationship but he might get a little jealous but if its something that would bring in more money than id say go for it
2007-01-17 12:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it will make any difference as most women are on the phones 24/7 anyway! were used to it.
2007-01-17 12:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by scott g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, income is income, and this is really safe, compared to actually getting physical, and if your voice is perfect, you can make some money.
2007-01-17 12:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...I know they say that there's a job that was specifically created for each and every one of us, but uh,c'mon girl! Don't drop your standards!!!You're worth way more than that!
And most likely it WILL cause trouble for you and your guy!
2007-01-17 12:07:08 · answer #11 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋