while hanging out, i asked my wife what would she do if i rob a bank.... she said without hesitation she will turn me on to the police and i got upset about it, cuz even im not gonna rob a bank or anything, i expect us to be a team. would you do the same with your husband/wife?
2007-01-17 03:59:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Vows or no vows, I don't think anyone has the right to turn another person into a criminal.
2007-01-17 04:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dendryte88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that even though your bound in holy matrimony, your wife is an individual who values her own morel judgment. She is willing to be honest with you and can be of great value as a team member. Cherish the fact that you have someone who will be striate with you, because they love you and want to be more for you than just a merrier of your self. It's illuminating to play "What Ifs'". It can help you to know each other better but If you don't like what you find out, becoming upset will not help.
2007-01-17 13:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by grstroup2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are supposed to be a team, so why would you put her in the type of situation to where she would have to choose? Being a team does not mean doing something for the other person that would go against who she is as a person. You are only looking at this from your point of view as a team you should be taking your team mate into consideration as well. It really sounds like you are the one not being the team player.
2007-01-17 12:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by wyllow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a stupid question to ask really...i mean you have to think about morals. dont question your relationship like that because unnessessary fights arise due to asking questions that "challenge" the trust...when these are dealing with morals and virtues on how someone was raised...for example...being raised to even "tell" on your family if they stole...its not that she doesnt love you, its just...you asked a quesiton, and she gave you an honest answer. honesty is always the best policy. You shouldn't get upset because I mean...you're not going to rob a bank...so no worries. Ask questions with meaning if you are going to do such.
2007-01-17 12:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a member of a "team" as you call it, your responsibility would be not to endanger your other team member! Clearly, robing a bank would do that, so yes, I would turn you in too! Just because she loves you and is your team member, does not mean she has to support you in going against the law and what she believes in!
2007-01-17 12:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, I tell the police before they rob the bank.
2007-01-17 12:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did not turn you in it's aiding and abetting a fugitive and she can also do time for a crime she had nothing to do with.
I love my family but they are responsibile for their own actions. If I robbed a bank I would not expect them to have to serve a prison term for my actions.
2007-01-17 12:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you screwed up an didn't come back with a whopping load of money. I couldn't stand being married to a man who was a half-assed bank robber.
2007-01-17 12:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I will not turn my husband or any of my family in but she did tell you the truth and you know where she stand lol
So if you do anything wrong it best to keep that stuff to yourself
2007-01-17 12:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never turn my man in! NEVER! And I'd drive him to Mexico to escape from these pigs!!! Your wife sounds like my mother ... a citizen who feels they have a civic duty to do all they can to stop all crime possible! SCREW THAT! Remind your wife that she's supposed to be your best friend! Man ... I'd hate to have morals like that ... what a snitch! Hope it all works out for you dude.
2007-01-17 12:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋