the problem is I know he loves me and I love him. Hopefully you all girls/women could help me. I have been there for him, I have never cheated on him, am there if he needs someone to talk to, If I have it I will give it to him, whatever he needs. When we are together face to face he treats me like am a queen. I go back home he just ignores me when I call him, he cuts me off to talk to other people, or he'll call me and do that. His friends influences him very badly, They would say hang up in that b**** face. I ask him why he does this and that, he ignores me or gets mad. He says he doesn't do anything, or never hurts my feelings. I could be in a good mood, he does something to upset me when I ask him why he done it, next thing I know he does me worse or brakes up with me, for no reason, says he needs time. He has that "I don't care attitute. What could I do to that could brake him and to get a grip. listens to parents or no one. He have always told me he loves me...
2007-01-17 03:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by Peaches89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is still very immature, and is easily influenced by his friends. He is not ready to be in a serious relationship even though he wants to be. It will be hard for you to be with this guy, you will be on a constant emotional roller coaster ride. Mabe you should tell him you need a little time to yourself, to reavaluate the relationship because you are not happy. That might perk his interest enough to get the two of you talking. Then you can make a decision if this is a relationship worth persuing
2007-01-17 03:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He walks all over you because you let him. He tells you he loves you so you will continue to give him what ever he wants.
Girl, if he loved you, he would never want to hurt you or disrespect you. He would go out of his way to make you feel comfortable, any time all the time. Of course people have there moods, but the way this sounds, this is how he is.
Leave him. If not forever, long enough that he knows that you are not playing when you say you do not like the way he treats you. If he does really care like he says, then he will come back and he will change. If not, you win because then you know his true feelings and you will allow yourself to be free to find a man who will treat you the way you should be treated.
2007-01-17 03:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not love sweetie u deserve better than that. Let him go he sounds like a jerk and a follower. He likes 2 listen 2 what his friends tell him 2 do. He is not good, get out now be4 he ends up hurting u. He does not know the meaning of love teach him a lesson and leave him, if he really loves u he will realize thet he is going 2 lose u and he will change. If he just leaves it was never meant 2 b.
2007-01-17 03:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, If he loved you so much, he wouldn't let his friends get in the way and call you those kinds of things. He would tell his friends to stop and it sounds like they aren't really good friends, or that he's not the right guy for you. No guy is worth going for if he's letting his friends push you around. It's hard but move on. A nice girl like you could get a better deserving man. Good Luck :)
2007-01-17 03:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tihnk you should dump him hunni he honestly needs a wakeup call he isnt listening to you only his mates if he cared for and loved you he wouldnt treat you in such a maneer
2007-01-17 07:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you like he said he did he wouldn't let his friends disrespect you it seems like he takes you for granted so let him know you can get whoever you want
2007-01-17 03:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋