i'm seeing this guy for 2yrs on and off he never takes me out ,whenever we suppose to go out something always come up on his side. i really love this guy but now i really regret accepting him back in my life .i havnt seen him or talk to him for 4dys now, i called he never pick up or return my calls, what should i do ?i really dont wanna loso him ,i'm stupid right.
2007-01-17 03:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by miss p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you are not stupid. We've all been in a relationship where our partner may not have felt the same way about us as we did about them. Trust me, it happens to us all. Don't blame yourself, you were just blinded by love or the lack thereof, in your situation. I advise you to let him go. He's making it pretty clear that he doesn't want to be with you. Why continue to waste your time on someone who doesn't even deserve you? If he did, he'd realize what he has and make the most of the relationship. Instead, he's playing games with your heart. Let him go. If someone shows you who they are, believe them. And believe me on this, he's showing you that he's a jerk. Move on honey...
2007-01-17 03:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it....I don't wanna say it's stupidity...I think it's more of being naive. You are thinking that eventually he may call and things will be back to normal....well no. Even if he does call, you need to let him know that it's over. You are wasting your time. You could be talking to someone that really likes you and is worth your time, and who could possibly fall in love with you one day. The clue that he never takes you out or something always comes up tells you right there that he has a girl and you're just something on the side. When you let him go the first time, you should have left it there, because there was a reason that you left him in the first place. I think you should just leave him alone and do what's best for you. Make yourself happy.
2007-01-17 11:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's using you.. he takes you for granted that's why he doesn't take you out and if he never did it in two years, he won't do it now.
He doesn't respect you enough to return your calls and he speak to you when its convenient for him
don't settle for this type of relationship...you are worth more than that and if he can't see your worth..move on and find someone who will. It might even be better staying single for a while and just enjoy the freedom of being out on your own for a while...hang with the girls and enjoy life
2007-01-17 11:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mary S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not stupid but it's time to move on. It's easy to see he's not that interested in you if things come before you and dealing with it for two years is about one years and 10 months longer than you should have.
Do yourself a favor and find someone that really cares for you, you deserve better.
2007-01-17 11:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its time to go on with your life and leave him and his cheapskate routine alone. You're not a priority on his list so why should he be on yours! I'm not saying don't ever see or talk to him again. Maybe ya'll can be friends at some point, but don't hold your breath waiting for him to change. Women deserve to be wined and dined and paid attention to. Sounds like its not important to him. He thinks that you're gonna be there at his convenience all the time. Get a life and prove him wrong! Believe me, I've been there. It sux! You can do better! :)
2007-01-17 11:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Haleigh's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think hard about why you want to be with someone that doesn't think it important to return your calls or takes you out.
Do you feel like you don't deserve a normal relationship or to be treated nicely?
No one should be in a relationship just to say they have a boyfriend / girlfriend. It is about deeply caring for someone and having mutual respect.
I would forget about this person - try to build up your self respect and self esteem and wait for the right person to enter your life. One that will treat you with respect and kindness and with whom you can enjoy spending time with.
2007-01-17 11:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by bravokardia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to just let him go. Why do you insist on staying with someone that does not appreciate you. Please wake up and smell the fresh coffee. Move on get rid of this looser. It's obvious that he is up to something for not calling you in 4 days.
2007-01-17 11:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gal....isn't it obvious he is neglecting you....there are many guys in this world who would treat you the way you deserve to be treated....You deserve more and good....forget him....and soon you will stumble upon the right one for you...just don't lose the hope and faith....Only with the person who reciprocates your love,life will be good or else it wud be a hell...Good luck !!!!!
2007-01-17 11:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not stupid. Simply in denial. He doesnt seem all that interested.
So why not put your efforts into YOU, rather than him.
Best Wishes..........
2007-01-17 11:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yep estipido..nah..just see what happens if he continues to ingore you or make up excuses then it is time to let gooo..
2007-01-17 11:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋