A few of my female friends wanted to know why the men that they are in a relationship with, stop doing the things they uses to do. For example, my friends boyfriend would stay on the phone with her for hours, but now they only talk once a week. What changes in the relatioship?
2007-01-17 03:32:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would agree with the impressing thing. I mean the first few weeks they mostly spend "courting" you and trying whatever they can to get you to like them. But once they have you they dont try as hard to impress like they did earlier.
2007-01-17 03:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a while the guys who are actually in a relationship start to get more and more comfortable with their girlfriends, which is why they start acting all "strange" and "different." But the truth of the matter is...this is how they NORMALLY act whenever they don't have a girlfriend, so although we as females might classify it as "weird" or "strange" or for that matter "different," the males don't even notice what they are doing, because it just comes as human nature to them. In most cases, its not like they are blowing you off, as one guy so elegantly put it, its just that they are becoming "more and more used to you" and they "feel more comfortable" in the relationship. In the words of the old cliche, "Boys Will Be Boys."
2007-01-17 03:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by butterflykisses03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run out of things to talk about, you guy aren't doing new things that are exciting to talk about. It's hard being a guy always being perfect. It's like any job... you are gung how the first few years and then it just gets boring. This is why Hollywood celebrities are starting not to marry anymore... Soon men will hav 6 or 7 wifes during there life. I'm on my 4th
2007-01-17 03:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most of the things that both mates do in the beginning is excesive i.e. staying on the phone for hours. That's going to burn out your convo in a hurry.
I think most people have should be good friends having many things in common before they get together this will bring you so much closer.
2007-01-17 03:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Myself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me before. I think you just generally get to know the other person pretty well and you kind of run out of easy topics to talk about. Plus, as you get more comfortable in the relationship, sometimes people need a little more space for themselves. The excitement in the relationship kind of fades over time.
2007-01-17 03:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he see her often....For example me and my boyfriend used to talk on the phone for hours too, at the begining. But now we have been going out for a year n a half, and we dont talk as much no more, cuz we know everything about each other, we like text massaging each other every morning and night, and he comes over to my house everyday...so does he see her often, I mean if he does, its not a big problem...theres just nothing to talk about anymore...he knows everything about her
2007-01-17 04:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel they have you they no longer have to impress you. If you are true to a future in the relationships, you should never allow this to happen. It will only lead to bad things. Odds are the women do not do the same things anymore either. Both should try to make each other happy and never stop.
2007-01-17 03:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the beginning of a relationship, you are unsure of yourself and you tend to act differently that what you would normally. This is referred to as the "honey moon" period. You call him every five minutes, he shows up at your job, you know how it is. Then he shows his true colors a few weeks later. Sometimes you'll get lucky and it will be months later.
2007-01-17 03:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are like wolves...they love to chase us and do whatever it takes to know us intimately...once they do, they are no longer excited because it's not a challenge anymore...so they pursue the next victim but keep you on the side. If you decide you no longer wants to be bothered with them then they get up and start to chase you all over again.
Dumb isn't it???
2007-01-17 03:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could say the two, inspite of the incontrovertible fact that their motives might selection. in the previous I lost my husband, I in no way discovered any reason to apply that as a weapon, nor did he. an significant area of a solid marriage is determining a thank you to have large intercourse even whilst they have purely ticked you off. Make humorous faces that they are able to not see, yet relish your self!
2016-10-31 08:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋