she already can see that he loves her?
We're together for 7 months already, and I might be leaving the country in spring. He knows this, but he believes I would stay...
I haven't told him in words how I love him.
It's obvious, but I think saying out in words is another thing!
Guys, is it ok for me to say I love him?
2007-01-17 03:32:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes tell him. Its always good to tell someone how you feel about them because even though its obvious its always nice for your feelings to be actually said. OK put it this way... im sure you'd love him to always tell you how much he loved you even though it was obvious! =)
2007-01-17 03:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for the love of god, this IS going to make my tea ,which I've just this second eaten, manage to make it's way back up my sophigus and spread it's self out on my front room floor carpet rather like an extra deep 17 inch special from domino's pizza.
If he loves you ,and i use the term loosely because lets face it has he been hanging around with your best mate a bit much lately mmm ah, he'll show you his true feelings by letting you go thus giving you the possibility's of performing in the same manner as him. Now i know that i might be coming across a little bit harsh but darling this is the 21st century and since time began man ,and women, have had one goal in life which is to get the best result and if that means stepping on a few toes and sleeping with your best mate when he's already told you the biggest pile of dihorea by saying "oh honey i love you so much. x x x"
So whats the evidence, mmmmm, lets see.
tell him that your going out of the country because he's putting too much pressure on you. Tell him that he is the one who has been unfaithful and that if he really does love you HE should be the one paying for the 17 inch special from domino's.
Sorry to be so harsh cute bird but if you don't do something now then all your going to get is sausage and chips
glad to help.
2007-01-17 03:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by "THE WISE ONE" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what i did when i was leaving for 6 month overseas and leaving my boyfriend back home. I told him i gotto tell him something before i leave and mind you the whole I love you stuff wasnt coming out of both of us. And I called him out of airport saying bye and all and then i was like i wish i could tell you in person (but he couldnt make it to ATL, he was in NYC) but i will tell you over the phone.....then i wanted to get my thought together and analyze whther i should even tell him that i love him when i heared over the phone :"I love you too babe!" I was shocked. This guy was reading my mind or he knew what i had to say to him but it was really sweet. So my thing is maybe you may want to do something like that or not but when its time then its time. We live only once and we need to tell each other how we feel, just in case if you know what i mean....Surprise him!
2007-01-17 03:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse it is, but the real question is what are you willing and wanting to do about it? If this is real love you would be considering a life together which your plans would then need either some re arranging or cancellation and ofcourse I know its not a good idea to not do what you were gonna do but my point is just that real love would then cause your plans to involve both of your lives and that sometimes usually makes alittle bit of difference in what you can or will do. But ya know what to if you guys are truly in love and meant to be together you will be in the end, you both can persue your educations or intrests and both will be there in the end to rejoin and finish your lives together, again if its real you'll be together in the end anyways to just dont worry if you really love him tell him, wouldnt it be terrible if for some god forbidden reason you didnt see eachother again and you didnt tell him, then you would feel terrible if he didnt know, right, good luck Kim
2007-01-17 03:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so u say i love u
and he says, yeah, me too.
and then u say
what u love me or u love u?
then u laugh and get married and live happily ever after
and have four kids and a wonderful life.
oh come on, i don't get the chance to write novels very
often. Not quite Barbara Cartland, is it!!
anyroad up, look,really if u were my daughter i would say.............
ask him "would u prefer it if i stayed?" and he says
yes of course i would. then u say does that mean u love me? and he sort of agrees after a bit of coaxing!! and u say i guess i love u too. how womantic - i'm sooooo excited!!!
have a nice time.
u will tell us all what happened won't u??????
2007-01-17 03:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after seven mths it really is about time, the thing that could be hard is if he doesnt say it back are you ready for I really like you 2. WHY dont you say 2 him do you love me and if he says yes then say that good because I really love you 2. good luck
2007-01-17 03:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by hatfieldnomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are leaving in the spring for sure. Best if he can move on without being stuck with you mentally.... good luck.
2007-01-17 03:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're leaving in spring and may not see him again, you should say it... The sooner, the better.
2007-01-17 04:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him before you leave, if you don't that is being a bit cruel, especially if he loves you as you say.
2007-01-17 03:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the way you feel you should tell him. One of you has to be the first to say it, might as well be you.
2007-01-17 03:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋