K so this guy and i are "just friends" but kinda used to date. I told him from the start i'd never go "all the way" till i'm married, but after hanging a lot, i got comfortable with him and we'd kiss and make out which made me attached and like him. we were apart for 4 mo. (cuz he moved)now he wants to hang out again but can a guy be using you if your not having sex?does he just like getting some lovin' now and than or does he like me? He says we are friends and just having fun and he's scared to have a serious relationship. i'm confused cuz we'll make out then i won't hear from him for a couple weeks. should i jsut stop talking to him???
2007-01-17 03:31:36 · 5 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont think he is using you that is just guys for you. dont slip up and think that if you give it up he be around more cause that wont happen. i think he likes you but just as a friend. and that's were you need to keep him, in the friend area. if you like making out with him then continue don't do it cause he wants to. do it cause you want to. and dont have sex with him, by not, your one step ahead of him and maintaining your dignity. if your like this after kissing then your really going to be stressed out after sex. take your time. relax and ride the wave if you guys were meant to be then it wil happen if he is really your friend then he will wait till your ready. and by making him wait he will respect you.
2007-01-17 03:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by kindkayeye/im a chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so it seems that he only calls you when hes in the mood to make-out with someone, and by you falling for it everytime he realizest hat you will always be there to do things with whenever hes lonely or bored, my advice it to find yourself a guy that repects you and treats you right and always calls you and talk to you, the key to a relationship is communciation
2007-01-17 11:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! He is just warming you up like a old diesel. (probably married)
2007-01-17 11:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he just talks to you when he's lonely. Your his fall back girl. I'd stop talking to him if i were you.
2007-01-17 11:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by H-Dizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking if hes using you, then deep down you already know he is. Loose him!!!!
2007-01-17 11:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋