this guy has been chasing me for a while but he has suddenly stopped!!!
he is ignoring my messages too.
ive heard he likes the chase.
is this part of the game???
am i to chase him now???
if he likes the chase, does that mean that he only likes to do the chasing or does he like abit of both???
2007-01-17 03:31:02 · 15 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like this guy. hes 29 and im 25.
2007-01-17 03:31:30 · update #1
When guys chase girls, no one knows who will win without details.
When a girl chases a guy, the guy wins, and she LOSES.
2007-01-17 03:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by ergonomia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Holy cow, at 29 the games should be very few and far between I think. I gave up games when I was about 23. Too me, the chase is silly. Sure, you don't want to jump right into a relationship, but chasing and ignoring is a little too much for my taste. If I am talking to a guy and he starts pulling away to get me to chase him, I just move on. lol There are plenty of fish in the see. My advice would be to maybe try and call him one last time. If he doesn't answer, screw him. I have done that before. I called a guy that ignoring me, and I left him a message. I said, Ok, I don't know if you are ignoring me or not, but I am done calling you. If you want to talk to me, you know where to find me. That night, my phone rang and he called apologizing for being so distant. Men are weird. lol Anyway, that is my advice. But only you can say when the "chase" has gone on long enough.
2007-01-17 03:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Brat_20_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how i see it. Its so unlikely that to people are secretly in love and then someone says something and its a big happy ending. Like, think about it, if some girl at your school starting likeing you and you found out about, you would look at them differently and probs started likeing them. So i say take a chance, If it dosent go well, then there are always more fish in the sea. Best of Luck buddy
2016-03-29 01:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
Guys like being chased and to know the girl does not think he is a stalking perverted freak and wants the attention...
Maybe he thinks you aint into him anymore and wasting his time... Guys dont like games.]
maybe he phone got stolen with you number in it... try email
Maybe hes found somone else.
2007-01-17 04:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow sweetie, if you like him chase him! What does it matter who chases who as long the end result is the same?
2007-01-21 01:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by bevalou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy, yes, you should show some interest in him.
Maybe you played hard to get too well, and he gave up.
The guy obviously isn't running "game" on you... because if he was, there's no way he'd have chased you as hard as it sounds like he did.
2007-01-17 03:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what he does and then chase and then stop again. it's called building anticipation. dating is a chase and it a should be that way.
2007-01-17 05:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if u like him...that much
ignoring messages is a bad sign.
he's trying to make u want him
i hate it when they do that.
don't chase.
just every so often just give a casual text
don't be the one calling, don't be the one who keeps texting, don't be the one asking him out
take it easy. if he likes you back
he would have kept chasing.
maybe you're too good for him ^^
2007-01-17 03:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chase him as long as you don't humiliate yourself.
2007-01-17 03:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Chase his *** he'll love it don't seem to desperate though
2007-01-17 03:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Edward W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋