I was goin out with this guy but we had a fight and we broke up, now he has a new gf but she is my best friend now they are goin out i was upset to find out she would do that but anyways,ii still really love him and cant get over him but he is still wid her and happy it kills me every time i see them together i dont really talk much to her now since she is always wid him now,, im do depresseed and heart broken and i still love him wat should i do ????
2007-01-17 03:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how could your best friend do that to you??? that was so mean of her I am so sorry. Forget the guy but your best friend... ??? im so sorry. but if shes really your friend you really have to work this thing out with her...
2007-01-17 03:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing, maybe your love is not reall feelings. Give it time, stop thinking about it, and dont tell your friend you are upset she would go out with your ex. The less he knows the better, to tell you the truth if he is dating your friend, he doesnt really care how that would make you feel, or he is doing it on purpose to get some angered emotions out of you. Whatever the reason, dont let him know you are hurting. And I am sorry, but I would not call her " my best friend" anymore. A true friend will never date your man, no matter what the situation. There are plenty of guys, she did not have to date him. Just calm down relax, and go about your life. I know its hard, but in the same thing happened to me. I realised my feelings were not love, and my friend was an ass. She dumped him two months later, and started dating this other guy. CERA CERA, just say it and move on. Dont get depressed, just live your life, and dont let anyone bring you down.
2007-01-17 11:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by beygrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be very hard but this will be good practice because it is not going to be the first. The absolute best advice I can give you for this situation is "never let them see you sweat". Apparently your friend and ex have been on this for a while. I will bet that they had this planned. It won't last nothing good comes from deceit, just wait it out and you will be the one to laugh last. Let your friend know that this is bothering you plus it will be the last man of yours that she will get her claws in, and forget about him. Next time when you get with a guy make sure he is 100% yours before you bring him around friends, and know who your friends are some are not worthy to even meet your man altogether, good luck doll.
2007-01-17 11:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take this as a lesson learned and better yourself for it. She is not your friend and he is not worth your tears. Everyone goes through this. These are the painful life lessons that make us stronger when we get older. You should get together with your other friends and spend your time thinking about other stuff. In no time at all you will have met someone new and the ex will just be a figment of your imagination. Don't worry, what goes around comes around. They will get theirs. Just go about your business and don't let them know that it bothers you. Good luck and take care.
2007-01-17 11:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need 2 4 get about both of them he is no good and she most definitely is no good. Hook urself up, go do ur hair get a nice outfit and strut ur stuff around him and make him remember what he gave up. Then go out find urself a nice guy and move on. Love hurts but it heals with time and in no time u will b back 2 ur normal self loving life. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-17 11:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of both of them. Pamper yourself some, get a make-over,change your hair. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself.
Then go out and do something.Flirt with other guys, make new friends.It will hurt for awhile, but beating your-self up over it just hurts you.
Yes I understand you feel betrayed,But holding on to that anger and hurt just makes you feel more miserable.
There are girls out there who will be real friends and a guy who will appericate you for who you are. Go find them!
2007-01-17 11:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly take your little time to shed your sweet tears and after that just don't be friends any more with your friend or ur ex.
you deserve to be happy with some one who is far more better . and that friend was no good if she did not consider your feelings before going out with your ex bf.my best friend would kill me if i did that to her. now you focus on keeping fit,work out, look pretty (you already do.. when you cry sweetly) and go out with your other friends. take your mind of those creatures.leave those dinosaurs alone .understand now neither of them are your business.be happy.. life's short !
2007-01-17 11:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U DONOT LOVE HIM ANYMORE U R JST JEALOUS AS HE IS GOING OUT WITH UR BEST FRIEND,HE DOESNT LOVE U ANYMORE THATS FOR SURE, SO Y R U STILL INTO HIM, FORGT HIM, GV UR SELF SOME TIME,AS TIME HEALS EVRYTHING.KEEP URSELF BUSY IN OTHER THINGS,MOVE URSELF TO A NEW DIRECTION,ALWZ GO AHEAD.DONT LOOK BEHIND
2007-01-17 11:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by StylishT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. She's your best friend, right? Don't let a guy come between you. Especially a guy you broke up with. Good friends are just that.
2007-01-17 11:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You obtain more with honey than vinegar. Keep a smile on your face, be nice to both. Keep talking to both, soon he will be your boy friend again and she will your best Friend again----good luck
2007-01-17 11:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by mypalnow2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋