Whay do women say they want a nice guy, but the always go for the abusive "bad" guys?
2007-01-17 03:10:54 · 12 answers · asked by weasley173 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure really. That's us for you. If you ever figure it out, let me know, okay?
2007-01-17 03:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women do want a nice guy but are way to impatient way to irrational to wait for him. Instead of waiting for the bus like everyone else at the bus stop they take the first taxi they see. And of course they have to pay more for the ride. So because they can't wait, because they get all scared good guys aren't out there, they get hit on constantly instead of wooed and desired by the good guys, because bad guys are far more aggressive than the subtle slower good guys they cave in and take what they ultimately don't want.
It's all nonsense. Know what you are worth, create a standard and stick to it. When does a rich person stay in a crappy half star hotel? You're telling me you have tons and tons of money you wouldn't stay in a 5 star hotel? Then why when you are worth so much would you give up so easily and go out with a loser? Same thing: standard.
2007-01-17 11:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right most women want a bad boy, and these women havent grown a brain yet . So just wait for the brain cells to start turning on and then they will be ready for a nice guy. Usually it takes a few failed marriages, some cheating or abuse but they will eventually get the picture.
2007-01-17 13:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.... why do people say "always" and "all" . Did you go and do a survey on every single woman in the world to know this for sure? Not all women go for bad guys, not all men go for bad girls. True, some do. So, you and maybe even your friends had some bad experiences. That does not mean all women are that way. Maybe some have to get hurt a few times to realize a good guy is better. Maybe some will never learn. I personally would like a guy who respects me and loves me for who I am without changing me. Now that's attractive.
2007-01-17 11:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we do want a nice guy, but just pick the wrong one sometimes 'cos they lead us to believe they are a nice guy (and then they change when it's hard to get out).
the best qualities in a guy are:
1 - he doesn't look at other women (or men) and is only interested in you - so he is faithful and loves you
2 - he wants to show you how much you mean to him and isn't afraid to
3 - he doesn't mess you around or lie to you
2007-01-17 11:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been involved with an abusive bad guy - not into that sort of thing. I do go for more of the cowboy/redneck sort but not an abusive SOB.
2007-01-17 11:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because baad guys have a wayy oof chaarmming aand being ssweet to woman annd womaan ffull ffoor it but thennwen thhey are toggether aafter a year the realise it wwas all aan actt !!!
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2007-01-17 11:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the "bad" guys act like nice guys before anything gets serious then when the relationship gets intimate they know they got the chick emotionally so thats when they turn into pricks... and **** the first dude that answered the question!! hes a cock somebody needs to whoop his ***
2007-01-17 11:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz the bad guys seem fun sometimes but in the end we want someone that is there for us and secure
2007-01-17 11:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause nice guys are hard to fined not to many out there
2007-01-17 11:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋