My friend BRANDON (Yes, I blazed you!) and I were talkin about sex and he told me that if a girl has sex with a guy anytime sooner than 3 months he looses some respect for her. Is this true, if not what is toooo soon, how long do you think a person should wait?
2007-01-17 03:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think 3 months is cool
2007-01-17 03:17:50 · update #1
Ive never heard this before and wondered is this how guys really think.
2007-01-17 03:20:31 · update #2
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-17 03:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...ummmmm care to explain under what pretense you are assuming that it makes any sort of difference when you choose to sleep with a guy? How are you any different from a girl who sleeps with a guy right away, say on the first date? You're not. So what difference does time make? None. If that silly illusion of 3 months or 6 months or whatever else makes you feel better go ahead, have it, keep it and good luck with it. In the end the result is all the same. You can't seriously expect a guy to actually have respect for you because you didn't sleep with him for like 6 months did you? He'll lose it just as soon as you are done having sex. S'way it goes.
2007-01-17 03:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl has sex sooner than 3 months I respect her, and call the man a pimp
2007-01-17 03:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by K-bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you r should wait untill you have feeling for him. if you do it too soon the guy will think your a hoe. if you wait to long then he will drop you because he will thinks he isn't going to get any. i would say wait till after the 3rd date before even trying to do anything. i don't know how old you are, but i am 23 so that's the way i am looking at it. now if your in highschool wait a while!
2007-01-17 03:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, have you ever woohooed before? If not, then you better ask yourself when you want to have sex rather than go with the current trend.
2007-01-17 03:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think depends i always wanted a girl to wait one month i think it is respectful
2007-01-17 03:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....whatevrer the girl wants to do...my freind wayne here just have one night stands...he has about 50 per year...he has been doing it since he was 9 so...can u figure out how many girls he has had sex wiht??????
2007-01-17 03:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by ghostface 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
un- till she is maried !
2007-01-17 03:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋