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My expectations are WAY more realistic than that other girl's, yet everyone seems to agree/sympathize with HER while telling ME that my problems are my OWN fault. What explains for the double standards? 10 points to anybody who can!!!!!
2007-01-17 02:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by gone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do us all a favor and save us your bullshit, no one on the internet gives a **** about people who act like victims. You are depressed and I TRULY feel sorry for you, I really do, you say you are too ugly to get girls as they are all too superficial? Employers never look at you twice? You look all around you and everyone seems to be successful but you? Get a grip and grow up.
Insulted? Probably want to email me with every swear word in the English language? Go ahead.
You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself, "bu.. but life sux" ;(
Really? Do you REALLY think so? Ever thought of all the people in the world that have it worse than you? quadriplegics, down kids, drug addicts, hobos???
Heck think of me, EVERY ****** DAY I go out there and suffer for 8 hours but at least every day I wake up and think "maybe today will be different, maybe today I can DO something that will change this"
Seriously, stop blaming everyone else for your problems. A girl turned you down because she thought you were "teh ugly"? **** her move on, gee I dont know get new clothes groom yourself etc. Can't get a job? instead of asking why noone will hire you go to monster.com or career builder and do SOMETHING.
STOP BEING NEGATIVE. STOP LIVING IN THE PAST. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF ABOUT THINGS YOU JUST CAN'T CONTROL.
That alone will solve 99.9 percent of your problems, your life will remain as shitty as "it is" as long as you THINK it is. With your current attitude you will get nowhere now, next week or ever.
Have fun, you only live once and you don't have to prove anything to anyone including yourself. Enjoy life.
Most people have been depressed at one point or another in their life, and as bad as things SEEM to be I can assure you they are not.
PROBLEMS DO NOT EXIST
DID YOU HEAR ME PROBLEMS DO NOT EXIST THEY ONLY EXIST IN YOUR MIND AND THAT IS WHY ONE CREATES PROBLEMS THEMSELVES
Think about this what problem do you have RIGHT NOW, not 5 minutes from, not 1 second from now but NOW. What is the problem NOW? THERE IS NO PROBLEM NOW AND BECAUSE THE NOW IS ALL THAT EXISTS THERE EXISTS NO PROBLEMS.
Dont worry about things that are not now, do not live in the present or in the future but live now and watch how your life will improve once you stop worrying about things that do not exist.
There is nothing else I can give you I wish you the best of luck and happiness.
Books you might want to read:
The power of now -- eckhart tolle
the alquimist -- paulo coelho
The Manual of the Warrior of Light -- paulo coelho
How to become an Alpha Male -- jason alexander (the most hands on/right to the point book the others are pretty deep and insightful might take a couple rereading to get everything, got it as a present from my father very nice book)
2007-01-17 13:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi thanks for the answer to my question
forget what the person said to you
stop feeling sorry for yourself your not feeling sorry for yourself
if you have derpression like me , its treally hard to get out of it and you dont need comments like that
2007-01-17 11:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww poor baby
2007-01-17 10:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋